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Very ranty journal that you don't have to read.
15 years ago
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Okkkaaaay so I feel the need to put this out there just so I can get some of it off my chest. Okay so my 15 sister has been dating this boy on the internet and to be honest the kids a total jerk. He's called her stupid among other things and made her cry more times than I care to count.Yet amazingly this kid is her be all end all the one she's going to marry,yeah. So he came into town the other day with his mom for some church thing. Well they were only suppose to see each other yesterday then he was leaving. Turns out he gets to stay anotehr day (today). Well I'm suppose to go have a special family dinner and go out to celebrate my graduation and I had put it off for my sister before all this because she flet sick and didn't feel like going. Well she was suppose to go do her thing with this kid and my mom then come back so we could go to dinner,compromise right? Everyones happy? NOPE. She decides to stay over with him even after we compromised with this whole thing earlier because I didn't want to go with out her. Even if this is stupid,corny,or a pussy thing to say,I really got my feelings hurt. I know she cares about this kid and all but he's not been the nicest guy to her and I've spent many a night up trying to comfort her while she crys about something he said to her. I don't know....Maybe I'm blowing this way out of proportion but it hurts a lot. This is important to me. To make matters worse he's one of those kids that's more than happy about live feeding rats to snakes under the argument that,"It's natural". *sighs and shakes head*
vermuse
~vermuse
The fact that she's fifteen explains it. That's when family doesn't matter and your "true love" does. I don't think that it's a matter of your sister not caring, but it's how teenage girls are or teens for the most part. Doing family things isn't all too appealing, though you do have every right to feel upset. I'm not against you at all in this matter, but that's how things are. It sucks, but one day she'll grow out of it. I know when I was at that age I HATED participating in family affairs, though I can't say I was ever into guys who made me cry. :/ That part is just a sign of low self confidence and... typical teen stupidity. *sigh* Just don't take it personally and understand she's growing up and doing her own thing right now. >: I'm sorry he's such a turd, though. *hug*
CarnivalMonster
~carnivalmonster
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Thank you. ;u; I understand that family stuff isn't like the funnest thing in the world but what bugs me is how close we've always been.It's isn't like her to be like this I guess is what I'm saying. The fact that she believes with all her heart that they will one day get married says a lot though. She's 15 for christ sake. D8 I guess to me this seems extreme to me because at 15 I was soooo different.I had crushes but never thought I would marry them. ._. Eh,hopefully she'll come around. Yeah,he's an ignorant jerk too. >8C *hugs back* T^T
vermuse
~vermuse
I understand that. It's a bit beyond me too since I was never like that, but I have a step sister that is like that + is a total slut so.. eh, I guess I'm use to hearing, "WE'LL BE MARRIED ONE DAY~" It's stupid, but kids are always dumb, ya know? >: Don't worry, deep beneath her icky layer is the sister that loves you. Just wait a while, she'll come around. <3
CarnivalMonster
~carnivalmonster
OP
Cheers to enjoying your childhood and not growing up too fast. XD Yeah I hear ya and yep,it is certainly stupid. I was going to actually go with them today then my mom was like,"He texted Emily and said that if youc ome not dress all dark and weird." Sooo I stayed home. =/ Hopefully she'll come around soon.<3 C: Thank you by the way. 8C You made me feel better.<3
vermuse
~vermuse
Anything for a friend~
