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15 years ago
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So I am at one of the peaks of my life, I have a wonderful job, with kind people and a really fun boss, I have wonderful friends who are always there for me, I have a kind, loving husband who is fun and talented, and I'm losing weight!
But the downs are there too, Ty and the rift between he and his oldest friend is really tearing my heart up, what's worse is I'm pretty sure that it's my fault somehow. Said friend says I'm a fat shrew, which could be true, but I try to get Ty to call people all the time, I can't MAKE him do anything. I never stop him from doing anything either though. Ty makes all his own choices. If he wants to go somewhere or do something? I encourage it, because he stays here at home and barely does anything outside of comic stuff. I just... I wish there was something that I could do, anything, but he won't listen to me, and in all honesty, I think Ty's family feels the same way said friend does. They all blame not seeing Ty on me. What can I do? We have one car, so if I have something to go to, I usually find a ride outside of Ty, and like I said, if he wants to do something, I encourage it, but he prefers to stay at home in his free time. I can't control him... *sigh* I guess this is part of being married, but I just hate feeling guilty for something I KNOW that I have no control over.
Ugh okay, gloom out of the way, things are getting better every day. Soon Ty and his comics will be bigger and better than ever, and I think that by the time the next FF comes around, you will all be pleasantly surprised!
But the downs are there too, Ty and the rift between he and his oldest friend is really tearing my heart up, what's worse is I'm pretty sure that it's my fault somehow. Said friend says I'm a fat shrew, which could be true, but I try to get Ty to call people all the time, I can't MAKE him do anything. I never stop him from doing anything either though. Ty makes all his own choices. If he wants to go somewhere or do something? I encourage it, because he stays here at home and barely does anything outside of comic stuff. I just... I wish there was something that I could do, anything, but he won't listen to me, and in all honesty, I think Ty's family feels the same way said friend does. They all blame not seeing Ty on me. What can I do? We have one car, so if I have something to go to, I usually find a ride outside of Ty, and like I said, if he wants to do something, I encourage it, but he prefers to stay at home in his free time. I can't control him... *sigh* I guess this is part of being married, but I just hate feeling guilty for something I KNOW that I have no control over.
Ugh okay, gloom out of the way, things are getting better every day. Soon Ty and his comics will be bigger and better than ever, and I think that by the time the next FF comes around, you will all be pleasantly surprised!
Hopefully his family understands this and his friend will.... learn... >.<... however it shouldn't mean you are at blame.... *hugs* your doing everything you can do to be a supportive wife and I am sure Ty is very happy.
Try and remember that people are.... well.... not very nice in their opinions of us.... we have to take what they say and how they feel with a grain of salt since it always seems to hurt more to the individual... .they don't consider what the other party feels most of the time. If we did consider everyone's emotions all the time... well we probably would just all curl into tight balls trying not to move for fear of crushing amoeba's *chuckles and grins*
>.<