im trying buddy hugs

i know you arre and i thank you allot..just idk if long distance stuff is gonna owrk for me.. ie my last relationship

Start with this goal in mind: What can I do for this person? How can enable success in life for him? You will see that you needs will become fulfilled as a by-product of their success. My parents taught me this lesson, and they will have been married 42 years in September.

you mean start talking care of someone and then that will help me? what happens if they dont feel the same way?

eat them

lol

Nope, I mean when you see the person, try to see what you can do for them instead of fulfilling your own needs. If you can see yourself helping this person achieve what they want in life, and this thought makes you happy, and they see you the same way, it's probably a good match and worth pursuing. It's part artform and part science, but when it works.... very sweet.

ok i guess ill try that..

Sometimes not thinking about it helps too. One of those weird things where you find something when you weren't even looking for it.

Hope ya feel better foxy. :)

i'm here 4 u...heh..in same boat

I believe, if you try to find it and go look for it, you may get your hopes up and then something may not go as planned and you end up at square one again.

Try to just bide your time with a hobby to get reaquainted with yourself and your nitches or talents. Work with those things you love to do to help let the time pass by. And then the next thing you know when you least expect it.... BAM!!! You will find someone or someone will find you before you know it.

I understand that the feeling of having someone to go home too is desired, but at the same time, make yourself appear confident, strong and determined to the path of success and then things will go your way.

No need to rush into things. Have fun and enjoy yourself in the mean time.

I just hope I am not sticking my nose into someplace it does not belong O.o

Mhmm yeah that makes sense

This is for you Hope that cheers you up

hehe thanks buddy

Join the club dude....I know how ya feel *hugs*

Your welcome, Its having friend like you