I just talked to my girlfriend online, and asked her how she was. Her answer was far from what I expected. All I got was that she was horrible. It's been about a year now since her aunt died. They were inseperable, just like me and my grandpa so I know how she feels. But I've learned that I need to let go, she hasn't. Anyway, I tried comforting her by asking if she wants to continue talking to me like this on Yahoo IM (Treasure Island Job Corps in San Fransisco, CA is about 400-500 miles from where she lives), and she got even more upset. I try talking her even more, trying to rethink my words, but almost everything I said cut the wound even deeper. Most of the time I'm good with my words paired up with my body launguage, but online and talking to her, my words end up hurting both of us. I haven't shed any tears for anything hardly for a long time now, but the last few times that I have, it's been about her. What do I have to do? Can someone please help me heal my love!