I have come to the conclusion that when one has feelings for one that is taken by another, one must stop all of those particular feelings towards that person and move on. What is the point of taking another when they are full of joy with their loved ones. What purpose is their in hurting the loved ones if it hurts not only that one person but yourself? There is a time and place for everything and it appears this is not the time or place for these thoughts to exist, and I must move on with life.