Feeling out of sorts. Advice?
15 years ago
Sooooo this weeks been a bit of a rage week and onto of that I have been trying to deal with this in my head. I don't know if I do wrong but I feel sad about this still. I really like this guy an some time back he strolled talking to me. He was I believe going through allot and took a step back from people and the scene in general. When he announce the other week that he was feeling back to his old sel again I simply replied to say how glad I was that he was feeling back to normal again and asked if we could be friends again. In reaponcr I received this...
"Thanks for your comment on my journal. I have chosen to hide it as it makes me look bad and I don't want people who happen to look at my journal getting the wrong impression of me. Whether a friendship is online or in real life its status shouldn't be public knowledge.
In response to your question, I honestly don't have the strength to deal your your friendship, from what I have seen I think you have plenty of decent friends who can give you the time. I don't think I am one of them.
I don't hate you, I just don't think we mesh well. You may disagree here but a friendship is two way and no matter how good a friend you can be to me, I don't think I'm capable of returning that generosity.
I hope you can accept that and don't take this too hard as you are a good guy.
Take care! And if we occupy the same room I hope the is no animosity as I think any friendship that exists between us will remain a distant one"
I still don't know how to take it. I always want to be friends with every one and I don't know if it's wrong of me to feel upset that my offer of friendship has been rejected for whatever reason.
Anyway. I was just having a hard time dealing with this and wondered if any of you guys have any advice for me?
Thanks
Kaz
"Thanks for your comment on my journal. I have chosen to hide it as it makes me look bad and I don't want people who happen to look at my journal getting the wrong impression of me. Whether a friendship is online or in real life its status shouldn't be public knowledge.
In response to your question, I honestly don't have the strength to deal your your friendship, from what I have seen I think you have plenty of decent friends who can give you the time. I don't think I am one of them.
I don't hate you, I just don't think we mesh well. You may disagree here but a friendship is two way and no matter how good a friend you can be to me, I don't think I'm capable of returning that generosity.
I hope you can accept that and don't take this too hard as you are a good guy.
Take care! And if we occupy the same room I hope the is no animosity as I think any friendship that exists between us will remain a distant one"
I still don't know how to take it. I always want to be friends with every one and I don't know if it's wrong of me to feel upset that my offer of friendship has been rejected for whatever reason.
Anyway. I was just having a hard time dealing with this and wondered if any of you guys have any advice for me?
Thanks
Kaz
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I wouldn't know how to deal with something like that either since I want to be friends with everyone (to the point where I'm too afraid to talk to most people in case they hate me), all I can suggest is...maybe he's nutso in the head?
Probably best to try to forget about the whole thing and chalk it up to "the Internet makes everything weird".