10 Day Meme Day Seven.
15 years ago
Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
**Day Seven: Four turn offs.**
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession
Only FOUR? There's so many though! >:O
1) I don't like certain personalities and mentalities.
Your thought processes might run on a completely different level than mine. In addition to having a completely alien view on the world, you're more than likely to upset me in a hundred million ways. You're also likely to have very little in common with me in the first place.
Personality mindsets I don't like include, but are not limited to:
-Dumb selfish blond.
-Arrogant narcissist.
-Social leech.
-The 'Alpha' and 'Bravo' male.
-Womanizer.
-Materialists who believe the ultimate goal in life is to have the biggest truck in the neighborhood.
2) Being excessively lewd, dirty, and bad.
Swearing, having sex for the sake of being bad, spitting, farting, or otherwise trying to be nasty and associate a perverted attitude that isn't a part of your normal attitude, all in an attempt to heighten sex.
If I'm with you at all, it's because I like the real YOU. I don't need a show, or a display of extreme vulgarity, to enjoy sex. It actually upsets me and makes me not interested anymore.
3) Angry sex.
If I'm being screamed at, smacked around, or forced against a wall too hard, I will definitely not be interested in sex or cuddling. My tail will be between my legs, and my heart and spirit will be running away.
Sex is meant to be fun and nice to enjoy. I don't associate anger, violence, or yelling with any of it, unless it's rape, in which case I want nothing to do with it.
4) No feedback.
Seriously, if you're just going to lay there like a piece of dead meat, I won't have fun.
You might be enjoying yourself, and you might still feel nice... But nothing makes me feel more insecure than a person who doesn't tell me if I'm doing well or not. I need your input, and I need the encouragement. I'm telling you what's nice and what's not nice, so please do the same.
Even if I'm not the best performer, tell me where I should focus on, or that 'mmm, that was nice...', or give me a pro-tip on how to make things better for you.
I want to walk away feeling like a man, not an inexperienced cub.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
**Day Seven: Four turn offs.**
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession
Only FOUR? There's so many though! >:O
1) I don't like certain personalities and mentalities.
Your thought processes might run on a completely different level than mine. In addition to having a completely alien view on the world, you're more than likely to upset me in a hundred million ways. You're also likely to have very little in common with me in the first place.
Personality mindsets I don't like include, but are not limited to:
-Dumb selfish blond.
-Arrogant narcissist.
-Social leech.
-The 'Alpha' and 'Bravo' male.
-Womanizer.
-Materialists who believe the ultimate goal in life is to have the biggest truck in the neighborhood.
2) Being excessively lewd, dirty, and bad.
Swearing, having sex for the sake of being bad, spitting, farting, or otherwise trying to be nasty and associate a perverted attitude that isn't a part of your normal attitude, all in an attempt to heighten sex.
If I'm with you at all, it's because I like the real YOU. I don't need a show, or a display of extreme vulgarity, to enjoy sex. It actually upsets me and makes me not interested anymore.
3) Angry sex.
If I'm being screamed at, smacked around, or forced against a wall too hard, I will definitely not be interested in sex or cuddling. My tail will be between my legs, and my heart and spirit will be running away.
Sex is meant to be fun and nice to enjoy. I don't associate anger, violence, or yelling with any of it, unless it's rape, in which case I want nothing to do with it.
4) No feedback.
Seriously, if you're just going to lay there like a piece of dead meat, I won't have fun.
You might be enjoying yourself, and you might still feel nice... But nothing makes me feel more insecure than a person who doesn't tell me if I'm doing well or not. I need your input, and I need the encouragement. I'm telling you what's nice and what's not nice, so please do the same.
Even if I'm not the best performer, tell me where I should focus on, or that 'mmm, that was nice...', or give me a pro-tip on how to make things better for you.
I want to walk away feeling like a man, not an inexperienced cub.
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