you ok?

Thank you for asking, but...no...I am NOT ok. Someone has threatened a person I love who is suffering greatly under that threat.

This guy threatens to tell his parents of the extent of our relationship while he know how anti-gay his stepfather is. Furthermore he has said, in so many words, that the cause of this is because I am the one he has lost this person's "love" to and because he has heard on #dutchpaw what a bad person I am supposed to be.

I have invited this person several times to meet me, but he has refused to hear my side.

First off *thight hug*

Second, the person is blackmailing you. And I dont have to tell you thats plain illigal, you might want to remind him of that. Keep chat logs the entire thing so if the proverbial shit hits the fan and such you have something to fall back on.

As far as I know is that the dutchfandom seriously isnt what it is anymore and one needs to be carefull, in the past there were so few of us we had to get allong since there was no-one else. Now it seems that even standard manners are not uphold and drama is what seizes the day :/

Also consider that the person who is caught up in this is you and the person between you both should make a very clear statement towards the one who is threatning that hes choosing you.

Best of luck ..

Nah, he didn't threaten me. Worse, he threatened the guy I am involved with - making him feel bad (and making me angry). I love him and don't want to see him hurt in any way.

Those stupid lies people have been telling about me...and those stupid jealous people. Pisses me off, no end.

Question, seeing the amount of drama and the typicalness of the furry fandom.. wont this guy have forgotten it by the next time he wants to wank off and realizes his right hand is his best friend?

Well i went pretty much trough the same this year, but it just shows how people cannot be trusted at times. I really hope things blow over quickly :/

*hugs*