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18 years ago
I was chatting with a friend abit ago and he made me think really hard about something... Sex, I'm a very snuggly and cuddly person to most people, but to my close friends I'm pretty sexual as well. I flirt with out even knowing it and send out alot of singals to people with out meaning it and it has led to alot of grief or alot of happiness. I've been lucky enough to only have been taken advantage of a few times and contracted soem horrible std or any thing. There was one point in my life when I use to constantly get blood work and tests... I tend to have sex at least once or up 6 times a week with friends(this is including rps)... When I make new friends whether irl or online, we chat, snuggle, and usually end up yiffing/yiffy rping. After this they either end up becoming a good friend that I have alot of fun with and enjoy being, or end up not talking with me again but every once in a while to yiff/yiffy rp with me, or I get a stalker. What I'm wanting to know is is this a bad thing? I mean am I just a whore of some kind? I don't know... I just feel bad again now, Alot of other people who do this are having sex to fill in some emotional void and acquire some form of what they think is love, I don't think I'm doing this but after rping with a friend tonight and kinda pushing him to do it... made it even worse... *sighs.* ... If some cristian or "normal person" were to have this asked by me they'd tell me I'm horrible person, fag, sinner, and alot of other crap. I mean I first had sex when I was 13yrs old, I've had sex with boys, with canines, and alot of other crap, I've rped during sex, dressed up(fursuites mostly, although i did were a maids out for my last girlfriend), been tied up, been in a few three somes(one with a girl and a wolf), and I enjoyed all of it... what ever...
Updates... (If you don't see your picture up here and I'm doing something for youthat just means I'm putting you on hold for abit, but I will get it done soon.)
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Also I need to what these contestant winners would like for there free yiffy arts, you have until sept 7...
dier
iiji
*nuzzles.*
Updates... (If you don't see your picture up here and I'm doing something for youthat just means I'm putting you on hold for abit, but I will get it done soon.)
Wips...
isil
dariuswhitefur
eclipse15
lyrim
o-kemono
thunderejjim
speed
kiwakuAlso I need to what these contestant winners would like for there free yiffy arts, you have until sept 7...
dier
iiji*nuzzles.*
Now, for my opinion, which is.. well.. I can't give one really without describing myself. And myself is one who doesn't just sleep around with others. There were a few times where I'd let some people give me blowjobs or handjobs.. but when that count got to 7 or 8 different people altogether, (not at the same time, just different random furs through the months), I felt guiltier and guiltier. Now.. I've never gone past simple touching and either self or other masturbation. Never experienced the joys of anal sex or being tied up. Yet, I don't even want to if it would mean having to do it with those I'm not connected to. Even if I had a dozen or so great, attractive friends who I was close to.. the idea of eventual mateship is just too important to me to allow anything else casual and stay in good spirits. I want to save every intimate moment possible with that one fur who loves me for who I am, and wants to share their lives with me, and I them. Now, if I was dating someone, that would be a different story. Otherwise.. just no.
But it sounds like you have alot of fun, and don't question yourself just because others might be. It's your life and live it how you see fit. ^^
I know and understand, age has jaded me a bit for an ideal, but I understand.
You said you had a time when you got lots of bloodwork, and you're expressing concern for if you're doing it too much, and everything else all sums up to you're stressing out over it because you're worried about the consequences. Well, you don't have to do anything if you don't want to, but I suggest paying attention to each situation where you have the urge to, and see if there's any other reasons besides just having an urge/being excited. If most of them are you just being in the mood, then it will simply be a matter of willpower and control in dialing all this back a bit and choosing when you want to, not doing it no matter what - this includes online rps.
Online might be a better way to vent your sexual energy especially if you want to avoid std's, but always remember the people on the other end are real and have feelings. (Two extremes are either getting hurt because they take it more seriously and emotionally than you might, or ending up getting attached to you and not letting you tell them no for an answer. This could go from playful nudging and whining for sex from someone you consider a friend, to someone you want nothing more to do with and they stalk you because of it.)
If you ever want to talk online, note me and we can discuss anything you might be having trouble with :3
Take care! :D
You yiff with other people because you want to show your love and compassion to your closeset friends to your heart. Your not a horrible person foxy, your a good foxy and always will be to me :). We all have sexual urge problems here and so do I and i'm slowly trying to get controlable here.
I've been used online a couple of times, people only im me and wanna yiff with me and leave me. You know you can talk to me when your down foxy, I wanna be there for you, your my dearest friend close to my heart *nuzzles*.
You yiff because it's like you said you wanted to show your affection and love to your closest friends. No matter what foxy, you'll still have this drawgy by you and you are not a horrible person, your a good and loving foxy.
Xendrax
I for one totally support your way of life. The only thing I'd say is that once you find that right person, be loyal. Only include other people or animals if your lover encourages it, and even then it takes a very strong will to be polygamous. The green head of jealousy will always do it's best to ruin everything.
I think there is a big difference between someone who enjoys sex, and a slut, and it has nothing to do with the quantity or sexuality. You need to find that line and decide which side you stand on it, because honestly you're the only one who can.
Just because you yiff with a lot of people, whether it be in person or online, it doesnt make you a whore, all it proves is that you're comfortable with yourself.
Anywho, like I said, don't let me take advantage of ya if I start too *hugs tight*
You certainly seem like a *good* person, to me, if that counts. The pep talk here is; even if the really-frequent sex is a mistake (and I don't think that's necessarily the case), that doesn't mean you're not a good person, it just makes you a good person who made some mistakes.
If you're that worried about it, ease back on sex, shift to masturbating more to make up for it (it sounds like you might just have a really active libido?), and see how that feels. If there's some sort of addiction thing, that might really make it obvious. Also, if you're really worried about this being an addictive thing, you can ask a professional shrink if that's the case. One warning here is to find some place with a sliding scale, since therapy can be pricey.
So, my suggesting is to figure out just wtf makes you happy in life, and to get a job. Not to harp like some busybody, but having something to focus you really helps.
My philosophy on love and sex runs like this: it's ok to be sexual with your friends and those you care about but aren't "in love" with, because after all, being close friends with someone is just another kind of love. As long as the caring and affection is mutually there, and it feels good and right to share this physically, go ahead and have fun. Just remember to take precautions against STDs where nessesary, and make sure everyone is on the same page. In the end it's all up to you and the other(s) involved, and it's none of anyone else's business.
Frankly, I think it's a good things you're so sexually liberated and so willing to share love and affection. If more people were like you, maybee there wouldn't be so much suffering and war in the world.
I have never had sex because I'm waiting for the right time. Take it from the "Christan" boy, oh man wouldn't I mind being pounded, but i've been doing other things to keep my mind off of sex, jacking off does help relieve the tension and makes drama between people and relationships wayy less. I guess it makes me happy not to be involved in this stuff yet.
No you're not a sinner you're just like the rest of us... you just have more of a lust factor that's all, some people do...some don't it's not like it's a bad thing!
They usually end up liking me a lot because I am one of the (very) few people who do not care much for sex.
Liking sex does not make you a bad person though.