Don't feel bad, I dont have a mate either and I'm okay with that

Thanks, but for some reason I don't feel "complete" not having a mate.

Yeah alot of people are that way. Well don't worry, I'm sure if you keep looking the perfect one will come around

you got a great way at looking at life my friend, but i think in my case im screwed. What person (female just to let you know lol) would want to be "my" mate.

Well you're funny and nice i think that's enough to get any girl to at least give you a chance

Well thanks but really my only talent is writing and im not even great at that, what girls look for is someone like you. Like i mentioned you have a great way at looking at life and you know how to pick up anyones spirit.

Well thank you very much but i still dont think you should give up like ever

You know something, YOUR WRIGHT!!! but theres one more thing i have to worry about. I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET OR EVEN FIND A MATE!!!! lol

well that all depends. just get involved in a lot of things that you like or just try talking to people and you'll eventually find someone. But if you dont like to get out of the house, there are things such as teen dating sites

Trust me no one would like non the less love someone like me. I dont look good and my personality is worse then a pile of shit...trust me

Well you just need some self confidence girls love that

Okay, this really isn't how it works x3 Most people who have a 'mate' on FA call them that because they're dating IRL (in real life). You don't just say "Hey, will you be my mate?" and then grow from there, you need to find someone who you love and who loves you back to form a relationship with. Furry or non, that is the point where you find a 'mate', not before, and not after. :P

That said, a good idea might be to try talking to girls through teen dating sites or teen-friendly furry communities (such as Furtopia). Remember, having a significant other (or "mate") isn't something just for your FA display page; it's something that takes time and work and a lot of emotion and stress. If you do it right, it's rewarding, but you can't expect it to come easily.

:) Good luck!

Thanks masked, it truly does help. But again I am not a lady person, you need to know I'm only 13 and I have a problem with talking to girls, or they have a problem talking to me. Socially I'm a failure and I always say that because It's true, I'm shy if you want to day that. I'm very kind don't get menwrong but that's not what impresses a girl, no offense. What impresses a girl is talent and I dont have one, unlike people like spencerdragon or renaayama they have talent, I'm what you call a no body. I want to find someone who I can make happy and care for and love but... No one would do the same back.