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15 years ago
Greetings, my furry friends!
Well, I'm finally getting around to using my PC more for typing, not just lurking. Hopefully that means that soon I'll have the next bit of my Love Kitten story written (for anybody who's interested). The changes going on around me in my life have been causing me to be quite a bit distracted as of late.
First off, I moved out of my house and left my husband. We're going to be going to the courthouse later this week & file the divorce papers. I'm tired of all his lies. 'Nuff said.
I did spend Dec. 24th with my boyfriend & his family, including his grandparents. His nephews & nieces are just adorable, and it surprised us both to find out just how readily I'm accepted, especially as compared to his previous female..........
I did spend Dec. 25th with my husband & son. Nikky was 5 calendar months old that day, and he helped open the 1st half dozen presents. He grabbed the paper & held it in place while I turned the boxes over to rip the paper. He loves the swing my mother got for him, & the walker my husband got him. The boom box I got to play the CD I got for him is still in the box, but he did listen to the CD through the computer, and he seems to enjoy it. I know I like parts of it. (Burl Ives: Twinkle in My Eye)
I spent New Year's Eve alone in our apartment, but that was OK. I got to watch 3 1/2 movies I've been trying to watch for forever now, so it was good. Plus a few other things I got to do *cough, cough, ahem* just for myself. Then my boyfriend & I celebrated the New Year's arrival properly.
I have noticed that I'm not grinding my teeth in my sleep all the time now, so apparently I've finally made the right choice. I only regret that I didn't make it sooner. Now my son will have to suffer as well, & that was NEVER the intention.
Stupid humans & their lies.
Anyway, enough for now. Until next time.
EDIT: Since somebody on here decided to be a rat and 'tattle' on me to my future X about this journal, I must make something absolutely clear. By 'my son will have to suffer as well' I mean this: He doesn't get to have both Mommy & Daddy around him all the time, and there are frequent arguments when they are. Not as many now as there used to be, but still some. Mommy however has been 'suffering' for over 3 years now; that's how long I've been trying to get the divorce from him, or get him to help me out like a proper husband should have done. THERE IS NO PHYSICAL OR MENTAL ABUSE OF ANY KIND GOING ON WHERE MY SON IS CONCERNED. If my future X would have given me the divorce in November 2009 like I tried to get from him, then Nikky wouldn't have to deal with only seeing Mommy for a few hours at a time.
Clear enough??????!!!!!!!!
First off, I moved out of my house and left my husband. We're going to be going to the courthouse later this week & file the divorce papers. I'm tired of all his lies. 'Nuff said.
I did spend Dec. 24th with my boyfriend & his family, including his grandparents. His nephews & nieces are just adorable, and it surprised us both to find out just how readily I'm accepted, especially as compared to his previous female..........
I did spend Dec. 25th with my husband & son. Nikky was 5 calendar months old that day, and he helped open the 1st half dozen presents. He grabbed the paper & held it in place while I turned the boxes over to rip the paper. He loves the swing my mother got for him, & the walker my husband got him. The boom box I got to play the CD I got for him is still in the box, but he did listen to the CD through the computer, and he seems to enjoy it. I know I like parts of it. (Burl Ives: Twinkle in My Eye)
I spent New Year's Eve alone in our apartment, but that was OK. I got to watch 3 1/2 movies I've been trying to watch for forever now, so it was good. Plus a few other things I got to do *cough, cough, ahem* just for myself. Then my boyfriend & I celebrated the New Year's arrival properly.
I have noticed that I'm not grinding my teeth in my sleep all the time now, so apparently I've finally made the right choice. I only regret that I didn't make it sooner. Now my son will have to suffer as well, & that was NEVER the intention.
Stupid humans & their lies.
Anyway, enough for now. Until next time.
EDIT: Since somebody on here decided to be a rat and 'tattle' on me to my future X about this journal, I must make something absolutely clear. By 'my son will have to suffer as well' I mean this: He doesn't get to have both Mommy & Daddy around him all the time, and there are frequent arguments when they are. Not as many now as there used to be, but still some. Mommy however has been 'suffering' for over 3 years now; that's how long I've been trying to get the divorce from him, or get him to help me out like a proper husband should have done. THERE IS NO PHYSICAL OR MENTAL ABUSE OF ANY KIND GOING ON WHERE MY SON IS CONCERNED. If my future X would have given me the divorce in November 2009 like I tried to get from him, then Nikky wouldn't have to deal with only seeing Mommy for a few hours at a time.
Clear enough??????!!!!!!!!
Femm