So I'm at work and check my Deviantart account on my smartphone and I see a visitor who... lets just say I don't see eye to eye with.
Now, for those of you new to my rantings and ravings, I have... a problem... with certain types of porn. Especially when it comes to combat sport. I saw a woman's life torn apart by a fetishist much like this visitor.
I'm a boxing fan. I was thinking "What method do you use to really watch boxing? Do you watch your favored fighter? Or do you watch using the perifery (SP?)and try and take it all in. It's fast paced, and tough to track.
Anyway...
While I'm pondering that I see the visitor at my page and as if a disembodied voice recalled to me about a discussion the guy and I had in the past.
I was big on ranting about how hard women in the sport have it, and how I have seen some seriously hurt and even seen some seriously DIE in the ring. Blah blah blah and such. So this guy (Who I wont name or link to unless asked because I do have younguns who watch me, and I don't want to link 'em to a smut peddling perv)
He said that I may be all about the suffering and hardships of the women in the sport, how I ignore the good and how he represents himself as displaying the FUN and GOOD and PLEASANT side of women in the sport.
However... if he's not lying to me he must be lying to himself and it definately shows a bit of his mentality that causes me concern. In his gallery I don't think there's a smile in there. His entire gallery is nothing but pain, punishment, suffering, agony... even DEATH. He has death meant as a sexual turn on. Rediculously endowed women skeweing each other with swords, for example. Polls about "which of these hotties DIE!?"...
And he accuses ME of being negative? Plus the work he displays has an almost bleak patina about it. Like it's a gloomy and faded photo or some... protien stained... ancient illustration on parchment. There's a lack of vivid coloration. There's no joy at all.
In his mind... is that happy and fun and wonderful? Holy shit...
Many of you already know who I'm talking about. But if you look at my art I have colorful characters, there are smiles, there are scenes where they ARE having fun in the sport and feeling that natural and heart pounding adrenaline... thumbs ups... as well as let downs and such.
This guy is beginning to frightem me more and more. Even another fetishist on another site even feels this guy is all about pain and suffering. "All his art is about is people hurting each other for cheap and ugly erotic thrills."
He swears up and down he has a lot of respect for the sport. He loves the athletes. Yet he's put forth no effort at all to show it. He has pictures posted that are true and respectful, but they're done by Richard P. Reyes and he's been inactive for a long time. This fetishist merely CLAIMS he has permission to post any and all works by this guy. Not sure if I believe him. I can't say no because maybe I simply don't WANT to believe Richard would support such a vile fetish so openly and willingly.