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What is love?
15 years ago
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if you say "baby don't hurt me" I might laugh and cry at the same time, but what does one do when they are the one who did the hurting? They hurt the one they loved and no matter what they do just cant fix it. how does one come back from that? how are you supposed to stop the jealousy when the one who was yours moves on and you cant?
Yea I am talking about myself. Part of me wants to just be happy for him, and the other part wants to just throw myself at his feet. A good friend told me that sometimes you simply don't get a second chance, and I fear this is one of those times. That sucks but such is life.
Regardless Love is knowing when to let go even if you don't want to. Love is still being there if you are needed. Love is not getting upset at someone else happiness. Love is hard.
Yea I am talking about myself. Part of me wants to just be happy for him, and the other part wants to just throw myself at his feet. A good friend told me that sometimes you simply don't get a second chance, and I fear this is one of those times. That sucks but such is life.
Regardless Love is knowing when to let go even if you don't want to. Love is still being there if you are needed. Love is not getting upset at someone else happiness. Love is hard.
But really, sometimes things need to simmer down before they can be handled again, and sometimes that's enough time for the other person to move on, much to your chagrin. Love is still eternal, and only applicable of the deserved. If he deserves your love, then you have to understand his actions, if they're righteous, not to you, but in general.
Be happy for him and when the time is right, apologize for things, reassure him that you're still around and that you'd understand if he needs space. Back off and let him come to you. Work on getting the bnitterness and angst out so that you can be around him as a friend. It's a rough road that I've been down before, that I'm currently in the process of again, but it's one of the greatest things to know that your love, though not what was intended, was still given and not wasted after all's said and done. And that the person's still in your life as family, if not a lover.
I will go to the words of Luna Lovegood:
"The things we lose have a way of coming back to us in the end. If not always in the way we expect."
<3 Do I need to come upstairs and hug you?!?!
(I had to post something funny since "baby don't hurt me" is out)
As for the dilemma, it actually sounds like you understand what needs to be done...