Have I ever felt that way myself? Hmm, hard to say ;P

Anyway, it's alright to feel like that. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you or anything, and you could just be a little confused. I don't know if you know anything about me (though from looking at my page you could probably tell), but I've gone through a lot of that myself.

I just kind of woke up, so I'm still a bit tired and not fully conscious yet, but if you'd like to talk at all sometime, feel free to send me a note or something, and you can discuss with me whatever you'd like :)

I appreciate it alot i have alot on my mind so it will be nice to be able to talk to someone....

I have felt that way at times. But that doesn't mean to try and be something your not. I just like that I can be a more sensitive person because of it and I am able to handle certain situations better. Just remember that the people who you love and love you, love you for who you are.

*HUGGLES*

Thanks!

You always seemed a little more girly to me than most. You have to chase our dreams Slave. If you wanna be a femboi or a chick or whatever it is that you feel, than fucking do it. Nothing personal to your mate, but you need to think about yourself for this part.

I love my mate to death and couldnt possibly do anything to hurt her i know though that she is not so fond of the male body so im still pondering but thanks for the advice.

I deal with this every day man. I keep thinking "Would she be better off with some one else? Would she be happier." And I kinda am still going through it, its just every time I look at her I dont think that anymore, and I am changing for her. I never thought of myself as a female to be honest, because my voice was deeper and things just never really worked out the way I had thought. After talking about it with my lovely I promised that I would be come what I Wanted to become, and shes alright with that. Its hard feeling this, its like chains are weighing you down so much to where you get so upset about it and thats all you think about. The only true troubles I have is that I cant give her kids, but then I know we can adopt, I dont have the "Equipment" (Being mature about this mind you) but I know there are ways in getting me one. ;D It will never really leave your mind, just talk it over with the mate, see what you two have to say and the rest is up to you. If she loves you as much as you do her, she wouldnt get upset over what your wanting to talk to her about. (And surely she does) YOU do what YOU do to yourself, make a decision, work on it, and see what goes on from there. Believe me, I know exactly how you feel, and every day I always ask "Why Couldnt I be some one else?" But your stuck with this. Theres always options, you just need to jump out there and find them. And believe me when I say I am taking my own advice on this as well. I do hope things/thoughts work out for you. =)

(Jeezus why dont I write a Novel eh? XD)

You should write that novel lol :3

Anyways i will always have this thought in my mind and for the longest time i have accepted that it was only a thought, i talked to my mate about it breifly and she just really doesnt want me to turn homo and she doesnt want to be a lesbian. She says she likes the way i look and doesnt want to change it i told her that i have fantasies and things and if they continue in the way their headed for awhile longer i might just take my opportunity....but i geuss well see for now i hold it to myself and thats it!

I really do hope that later in life if i ever do decide to grasp my chance that she will grasp it along side me.

Thats the right mind set certainly. Least you two have talked it over and shes told you how she felt. You just have to go with the flow really. :) Long as your happy with it, and She will follow the one she loves, and I have a good feeling she would. Wouldnt hurt to try huh?

Nope XD

*is totally late to this party*

Dude you do know you can be a girly fem type and enjoy having a girlfriend at the same time :p

There's actually quite a few guys that do it. Go with what feels right, we already know you're a weirdie, no one's judging you :p

Just work out, get girly, straighten your hair and do the best ya can!

I'll still be your friend~

Thanks X3