* the plan I originally drafted is irrelevant, there's more stuff going on than I originally thought. I'd say what those things are, but there's a lot of stuff I still need to detail.
* "accountability" has nothing to do with leaving angry words up on the Internet-- that was a rationalization on my part. so I've deleted some stuff.
* I hate feeling like I have a spotlight on me, even if it wasn't that bright.
* I'm still helping out, but I'm much more quiet/subdued about it.
* patience is key. :)