Lol, I can certainly try to help.... but i'd need something less broad to go on than whats it like to be a girl...

Oh, yes, of course. I have a set of specific questions to ask.

hey sounds cool, fire away, if you want to note me them thats fine too ^.=.^

I guess I can go ahead and ask you here. Feel free to pass on any questions you find too uncomfortable to answer. Or answer these in a note if you don't want certain answers public.


How firm are a woman's breasts? Like if one was squeezed or pressed, how much resistance would there be?

What do breasts feel like when you touch one? Like compared to the rest of the female body.

What does it feel like when your own breasts are touched?

If a girl layed down flat on her chest, would it hurt?

I know this depends on the size of one's breasts, but perhaps using yours as an example (if you don't mind), how much do they weigh? Would you say that having breasts makes you a little front-heavy?

How sensitive are the breast's nipples? If it helps, can you think of anything to compare the feeling to?

Bra vs no bra. I understand that bras help support one's breasts. How much support is this? Does your chest feel light as a feather when wearing one?

If you're moving around without a bra and they bounce or jiggle, what does that feel like?

What exactly does a vagina feel like? That is, if one touches a vagina. And the lips.

What does it feel like when you have a vagina and someone touches it, and the lips?

I understand that there is a sensitivity difference between the vagina and the clitoris. How much of a difference? Like what does it feel like when one is touched compared to the other?

What is the female orgasm like? I've heard exaggerations, like they're earth-shattering pleasures.

Is anything felt at all when someone kicks you between the legs? :p

These next ones don't really relate to anything this person has asked for, but I want to ask about them in case somebody does in the future.

What is PMS like?

What about the hymen? What does it feel like when touched, or broken? And what does it feel like after it's broken? Like, does your vagina feel more open?

I understand you have a kid of your own, and I assume that you birthed this kid yourself (as opposed to adoption). If that's the case, and you don't mind me asking, I have some questions about that.

What do your breasts feel like when they're full of milk? And what do they feel like when they're sucked on, or when your milk is getting drained?

What exactly does having a child in your belly feel like? Or, to be more specific, what does your belly feel like when it's being stretched out like that? What does it feel like when the baby moves around inside you? How much can you feel from inside your belly?

This is one I'm sure almost never gets asked of a girl, and with good reason. If you pass on this question, I will definately understand. What is giving birth like? Again, to be more specific...

The contractions? What exactly is happening? Like your belly is squeezing into itself or something?

What exactly is painful about it? Like, where is the pain centered at? (I won't ask how painful it is.)

To my understanding, when girls birth, they are told to "push" the baby out. Push, how? I'm sure it's not the same push that one uses to use the bathroom. What sort of muscles are being used to do it?

After birth. How sore are you? How long before the pain goes away?


Anyway, that's all I can think of at the moment. Thanks for any questions that you answer. Every little bit helps. :)

Well quite a mix of difficulty in questions here! I shall try to answer them all as best as I can :)

How firm are a woman's breasts? Like if one was squeezed or pressed, how much resistance would there be?

The best way I can describe it would be a jelly filled balloon, that doesn’t you know, squish out when you squeeze it like balloons do to the same rubbery extent, but they do squish a bit. If you squeeze with your fingertips you’ll feel small (natural!) lumps and bumps deeper in the tissue that are things like lymph ducts and milk ducts. If you press with your palm and feel something, then you have a problem.


What do breasts feel like when you touch one? Like compared to the rest of the female body.
Ummm how do I answer that? Breasts feel similar to the rest of the body, except they have more “give” to them.

What does it feel like when your own breasts are touched?
It really feels no different from say, touching a belly or what have you, the sensitivity is the same, it’s when you get to the nipple does it feel any different. Kind of depends on how there being touched, you know… like the difference between a doctor’s touch and a boyfriend’s touch…does that make sense?

If a girl laid down flat on her chest, would it hurt?
No, it doesn’t hurt, but I find it is uncomfortable, smaller breasted women would probably find it more comfortable than I do…

I know this depends on the size of one's breasts, but perhaps using yours as an example (if you don't mind), how much do they weigh? Would you say that having breasts makes you a little front-heavy?
Breasts defenantly make you top/front heavy, the bigger they are, the more likely a woman is to have back problems and back pain from having to hold herself up straight all day with the extra weight. Mine aren’t too bad for my body type, they weigh approx. .5 kilos (about 1 pound) each, (D cup size) (this done with an impromptu measurement comparing the weight to a few household products to determine weight >.=.> namely a loaf of bread = one breast…about)


How sensitive are the breast's nipples? If it helps, can you think of anything to compare the feeling to?
Nipples are quite sensitive, much more sensitive than the surrounding flesh, a bit more sensitive than lips, but not too much more….

Bra vs no bra. I understand that bras help support one's breasts. How much support is this? Does your chest feel light as a feather when wearing one?

Right off the bat I’ll say no, not light as a feather, there’s deffinently still some weight there, I’d say it reduces the weight to ½ to 2/3 what it would be without bra. This kind of depends on the bra, there’s quite a few different styles that can affect this, but generally I’ll say 1/2 - 2/3 lighter.

If you're moving around without a bra and they bounce or jiggle, what does that feel like?

Depends on the amount of bounce and jiggle, as the nipple acts as an “anchor” to your insidey bits, if you jump up and down hard, it pulls at the skin around the nipple and really can hurt, I tend to avoid jumping around without a bra on for this reason, larger, heavier breasts fall heavier and hurt more, it also strains on the connective flesh from your chest to the breast and that hurts too (I’d equate both to when you have your skin “pulled” in the painful “skin ripping off” feeling kind of way…). General jiggle I find annoying but not uncomfortable, its just kind of two floppy things stuck to your chest, really, they kind of go were gravity takes them. (re: the balloon full of jelly, they behave about the same way)

What exactly does a vagina feel like? That is, if one touches a vagina. And the lips.

The lips feel soft and smooth, like thin facial lips I suppose, but softer, since they don’t have the same wear-and tear, and not nearly as strong, there’s not a lot of muscle (that I’m aware of) in the lips. The actual vagina, since it is the canal, I’d say it feels like the smooth inside of a cheek, but much stronger, as it is essentially a tube of muscle.

What does it feel like when you have a vagina and someone touches it, and the lips?

Oh that’s a toughie… hmmm…. Touching the lips is like if you gently stroke facial lips, about the same sensitivity on the outside, the further in you get in the lips, the more sensitive, sensitivity peaking when you get inside the vagina itself. It’s difficult to describe in sensitivity terms, but its enough to make your eyes roll back and back arch with pleasure.


I understand that there is a sensitivity difference between the vagina and the clitoris. How much of a difference? Like what does it feel like when one is touched compared to the other?

The clitoris is very sensitive, more sensitive than the vagina, it’s really kind of the ‘pleasure center’, probably the most sensitive spot (next to the g-spot) on a woman’s body. I’ve heard it compared to the head of a penis for comparisons’ sake, but women can and do orgasm from clitoral stimuli alone.

What is the female orgasm like? I've heard exaggerations, like they're earth-shattering pleasures.

Oh man another toughie…physically it is just the “tube of muscle” rapidly contracting and de-contracting for about 30 seconds to a minute on average I think, slowing and eventually stopping, it actually (and unfortunately) peters off pretty quick, but you can get little residual pulses for a short while after.... On a pleasure scale? Hmmm it’s like with every contraction there is a wave of pleasure sent from the vagina, and that pleasure reaches every point in your body. More intense orgasm usually have stronger contractions, and the wave of pleasure reaches farther and is also more intense. It’s really a difficult sensation to describe…

Is anything felt at all when someone kicks you between the legs?

Lol, yes, it hurts, to an extent, kind of like when you hit your funny bone or something of that nature.

These next ones don't really relate to anything this person has asked for, but I want to ask about them in case somebody does in the future.

What is PMS like?
Ugh its horrible. You get angry for no good reason at about pretty much everything, you get cramps…. Which is just basically your abdominal muscles cramping up. You get over sensitive and cry over little things that you normally wouldn’t cry about. And you get horny, really, really horny. And since PSM and the period usually coincide, there’s not a lot you can do about that one.

What about the hymen? What does it feel like when touched, or broken? And what does it feel like after it's broken? Like, does your vagina feel more open?

The hymen is really kind of boring, it doesn’t feel like anything when touched, nor does it make your vagina feel different when broken. Basically it just hurts and bleeds minimally fore a few minutes once broken initially (since your breaking through a thin layer of skin) and that’s that. It only happens once, never re-grows on it’s own that I’m aware of, you can have it surgically rebuilt, but really, it’s not that exiting.

I understand you have a kid of your own, and I assume that you birthed this kid yourself (as opposed to adoption). If that's the case, and you don't mind me asking, I have some questions about that.

What do your breasts feel like when they're full of milk? And what do they feel like when they're sucked on, or when your milk is getting drained?

Full of milk they feel well, firmer and they get bigger, but there’s not really any internal sensation. Due to certain circumstances, my son was bottle fed, so I don’t really have an answer for the second part there, sorry.

What exactly does having a child in your belly feel like? Or, to be more specific, what does your belly feel like when it's being stretched out like that? What does it feel like when the baby moves around inside you? How much can you feel from inside your belly?

Hmm an interesting one, the stretching is so gradual you don’t really notice it, but you do get stretch marks if you don’t properly care for your belly (basically applying a special lotion with extra collagen daily), which suck and like scars are nearly impossible to get rid of, but can be reduced with the lotion. The belly becomes quite firm when it’s got a baby inside. The movement, well, you can feel when it presses on the outer edge of the belly, really when you see on tv a pregnant woman making her husband feel her belly because the baby is moving, that’s all she can feel to, just pressure on her belly.

This is one I'm sure almost never gets asked of a girl, and with good reason. If you pass on this question, I will definately understand. What is giving birth like? Again, to be more specific...

(I’ll do the best I can, but the memories a bit foggy…)

The contractions? What exactly is happening? Like your belly is squeezing into itself or something?

Contractions

What exactly is painful about it? Like, where is the pain centered at? (I won't ask how painful it is.)

The pain occurs for a few reasons, one reason is that something the size of a coconut is pushing its way though a hole smaller than your fist, the other is the muscles themselves are going through a lot of strain, near the end the pain is mostly the “coconut through the hole” pain, but in the beginning it’s a more abdominal, and especially lower back pain.

To my understanding, when girls birth, they are told to "push" the baby out. Push, how? I'm sure it's not the same push that one uses to use the bathroom. What sort of muscles are being used to do it?

It actually is basically the same muscles used for going to the bathroom, or at least that’s how the doctors told me to do it ^.=.^; women often get ‘cleaned out’ before hand to avoid any accidents of that nature. You use a lot of abdominal and lower back muscles, and just well, push like crazy.

After birth. How sore are you? How long before the pain goes away?

Soreness depends on how you gave birth; caesarean births will require stitches and a longer recovery period. I had a natural birth (no caesarean) and required no additional stitches afterwards from accidental ripping or tearing that can occur. I was quite sore, it’s like when you fall on your butt and a few minutes later you can move and stuff, but it’s still really sore. This lasts about 3 weeks or so. It actually hurts so much in the beginning, for the first 3 days or so afterwards your body shuts off your need to, well, poo, as the whole area has been through so much stress just thinking about it is painful.


I hope I helped! If you need clarification or think of more questions or whatever let me know!

That was kind of fun :P

The guy I'm doing the file for wants to know how women walk.

This one took a while to figure out, and involved some experiments with my fiance to discover the difference ^.=.^ lol

Anyway, women walk basically the same as men, you know heel toe, heal toe whatever, but from the shape of our hips, weight distribution, and balance, we tend to shift our weight from side to side as we walk.We will walk step with the left shift right hip down; step with the right shift left hip down. We also tend to walk with our feet closer together, and swing one foot in front of the other more parallel to the last foot (but not directly in front, just to the front and a bit to the side) which accentuates the hip wiggle, while men tend to swing there leg in a straight line from its starting point.

Hmmm I think thats it...

New question. If you can remember, what was it like when your breasts started developing?

Hmmm not really to much to remember, it's so gradual you just kind of wake up one morning and go "well, i guess it's time to get a bra..." then after a year ot two you settle into a more or less regular bra size.... that's all i really remmber from it anyway...