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Thoughts and feelings on being gay and the book Waterways
14 years ago
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It took me a little while to go about writing this, but I think I'm ready and would like to now, but for now this is only going to be posted here on FA.
Let me start out by saying that I accept all people regardless of their sexual orientations. Whether gay, straight, bi, or transgendered I believe we all have feelings and are good people. I accept people for who they are. I try my best to understand everyone and to be a friend to all. You shouldn't have to be ashamed of who you are.
The fact is that the subject of being gay can be a very touchy subject with some people. Not everyone will accept you or understand you for who you are, sad, but true. I can't change that, though I do wish I could.
What are your thoughts on the subject of being gay?
I believe that no one just chooses to be gay, it's triggered before you're even actually born, it's a part of you. It's really not something one can control.
I'm going to come out and say it... I take very little if any interest in females. I have feelings of being gay, I more favor to males and like male to male relationships. I've been this way basically from the start. Most, if not all the things I look at in the furry fandom are male to male. It's not something I can just change, because I don't want to. I'm happy with who I am. I know I'm not alone. Hardly anyone knows this about me, as it's not something I talk about, especially not to family... not sure how they would take it. I can only think of about two that do. And just so everyone knows, I'm certainly not out to harm anyone or make anyone feel uncomfortable.
Maybe I am talking to myself here, but if not and someone is reading this what do you think of me now? Do you still think of me as a friend and accept me?
I'm going to take this to a close now, but I'm going to leave a link to a book I am currently reading. This is a book called Waterways by Kyell Gold, a furry story writer. It's main character is an otter named Kory who gets to finding out that he could be gay. It's just a really great and well put together story on this subject. It's a great story for ones who have feelings of being gay, and aren't sure what to do. I'm really enjoying it. Here's a link for it on Sofawolf Press:
http://www.sofawolf.com/catalog/pro.....products_id=81
Let me start out by saying that I accept all people regardless of their sexual orientations. Whether gay, straight, bi, or transgendered I believe we all have feelings and are good people. I accept people for who they are. I try my best to understand everyone and to be a friend to all. You shouldn't have to be ashamed of who you are.
The fact is that the subject of being gay can be a very touchy subject with some people. Not everyone will accept you or understand you for who you are, sad, but true. I can't change that, though I do wish I could.
What are your thoughts on the subject of being gay?
I believe that no one just chooses to be gay, it's triggered before you're even actually born, it's a part of you. It's really not something one can control.
I'm going to come out and say it... I take very little if any interest in females. I have feelings of being gay, I more favor to males and like male to male relationships. I've been this way basically from the start. Most, if not all the things I look at in the furry fandom are male to male. It's not something I can just change, because I don't want to. I'm happy with who I am. I know I'm not alone. Hardly anyone knows this about me, as it's not something I talk about, especially not to family... not sure how they would take it. I can only think of about two that do. And just so everyone knows, I'm certainly not out to harm anyone or make anyone feel uncomfortable.
Maybe I am talking to myself here, but if not and someone is reading this what do you think of me now? Do you still think of me as a friend and accept me?
I'm going to take this to a close now, but I'm going to leave a link to a book I am currently reading. This is a book called Waterways by Kyell Gold, a furry story writer. It's main character is an otter named Kory who gets to finding out that he could be gay. It's just a really great and well put together story on this subject. It's a great story for ones who have feelings of being gay, and aren't sure what to do. I'm really enjoying it. Here's a link for it on Sofawolf Press:
http://www.sofawolf.com/catalog/pro.....products_id=81
I hid it for almost 10 years and just recently let it out.. although only online, on DA.
My mom and brother im still trying to figure out how to tell them and im just not sure how they would initially take it, but i know they would accept it ovr time. As far as my dad, i'm not sure if i ever would tell him.. He is really wierd with the subject, and i almost know for a fact there is a really good chance he would disown me if he knew...
I know that there are parents out there that would disown there kids for things, and it's wrong. Sometimes you do have to agree to disagree, but not to that extreme.
but yeah it is important to be happy with who you are, even with my family and mental issues, you come to accept and be happy with your self. :)