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What do you guys look for in a person?
14 years ago
I'm kind of interested here, I'm just thinking about life as a general whole, and psychological attractions in human partnerships, whether they be a mated partnership, or just close friends and sh*t.
So, what kind of things do you guys look for in a person? Personality qualities, looks, colours, any kind of information would help really, I want to see if everyone else's view is the same as my own, I find it all rather interesting.
inb4 you look for only personality for a partner. I know it sounds rough, but there must be some kind of physical attraction to someone if you're with them.
TL;DR version:
What do you look for when you're looking for a partner/friend.
So, what kind of things do you guys look for in a person? Personality qualities, looks, colours, any kind of information would help really, I want to see if everyone else's view is the same as my own, I find it all rather interesting.
inb4 you look for only personality for a partner. I know it sounds rough, but there must be some kind of physical attraction to someone if you're with them.
TL;DR version:
What do you look for when you're looking for a partner/friend.
I can't believe I'm not single.
Fml.
It's my belief that you're only looking for a female partner because you believe that because you think you're only attracted to females you can only fall in love with females...but of course, everybody's free to love and mate with whoever they want to :3
sorry to have wasted your time with my inane meanderings and insane drivel... :/
And I can thoroughly believe that I'm single XD
And yeah, that's pretty common quality I would assume, to befriend someone who has similar interests =p
I also like androgyny <3. Either guys or girls, unfortunately the two don't usually go together very well.
I suppose most people base their relationship of off the need to love or be loved, while both involve a certain amount of trust between one another.
Ultimately what it comes down to is a triggering of PEP hormone cocktails releasing a pile of dopamine and serotonin into your brain (and oxytocin at first) which dies down after 18-24 months. Usually leading to a break-up after that time.
Submission is a primary dyad, meaning that there are more people submissive by nature than dominant.
I think being a dominant person gets you a better chance at stuff.
Hmmm, maybe, it also depends on culture as well. In the Western world males are thought to have the "active" relationship role and females "passive". So I think it is roughly 50/50 considering there are alot of passive males and active females.
(I'm constantly surprised and pleased to have my girlfriend, and we've been going strong for a while now. :D )