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In The Doghouse
18 years ago
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tenOkay, so before I go on this off tangent of life, I'm gonna say this: I won't mention names and what not cause I don't know if anyone needs publicity etc. just go with me, he should know who I'm talkin' bout.
I have a really good friend, he's helped me through a lot and I like to think I've helped him through a lot. He's been there for me quite a while and even though he doesn't really think so, He has helped me through quite a lot. Really, it's kinda like I always fall down and can't seem to get back up, but he's there to offer a helping hand.
I like to think of him as one of my best friends, and not a school time best friend, the kind of friend where you have a thousand best friends, but an actual best friend, like, one of four I may have. I consider these four people the only people I can really tell ANYTHING, people I expect will support me and tell me what's right for me to do, what I need to hear. I consider this person one of those.
Yesterday I think I messed up. I mean, He started talkin' 'bout how he thinks we 'might not click' and the like, saying he's just a dissapointment really, but I don't think that at all... I mean, deep true to my heart I know that this guy's awesome and that he's just plain amazing. So like, I can't help but think 'fuck, I've done something to make this guy feel like we don't click anymore.' I don't know..
Really I just feel like I may have done something stupid, over stepped my bounds, possibly asked too much of him, more than I deserve.. blegh.
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I have a really good friend, he's helped me through a lot and I like to think I've helped him through a lot. He's been there for me quite a while and even though he doesn't really think so, He has helped me through quite a lot. Really, it's kinda like I always fall down and can't seem to get back up, but he's there to offer a helping hand.
I like to think of him as one of my best friends, and not a school time best friend, the kind of friend where you have a thousand best friends, but an actual best friend, like, one of four I may have. I consider these four people the only people I can really tell ANYTHING, people I expect will support me and tell me what's right for me to do, what I need to hear. I consider this person one of those.
Yesterday I think I messed up. I mean, He started talkin' 'bout how he thinks we 'might not click' and the like, saying he's just a dissapointment really, but I don't think that at all... I mean, deep true to my heart I know that this guy's awesome and that he's just plain amazing. So like, I can't help but think 'fuck, I've done something to make this guy feel like we don't click anymore.' I don't know..
Really I just feel like I may have done something stupid, over stepped my bounds, possibly asked too much of him, more than I deserve.. blegh.
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Since that's sooo not my place, I'd say just talk with him about it. The best of friends are the hardest to keep, it's a plant that just grows and grows and just needs all the more maintenance. Not that it's a bad thing. Just don't give up so easily if all it is is that the roots need some watering. =)
You said that he thinks that you two no longer click, however I think that "clicking" isn't all there is in a friendship. When you don't feel the click anymore, I know that can hurt the friendship, however, that is not what determines the friendship, you and your friend determine it by whether you want to be friends, which sort of leads back to what Aurek said, the best friends at the hardest to keep. Tastes change as we get older, but that's no reason to not keep your friends. Best of luck to you Ten and to your friend as well:)