.: What I Want In A Guy :.
14 years ago
General
What do I look for in a guy...? Even a female...?
Well~ I don't want someone who is going to stop their activities. If you play a game, that's great! Why not teach me to play...?
If you have opposite sex friends, I don't want you to stop hanging out with them. I do want you to remember that you have a girl friend, who adores you more then they could ever imagine.
You hang out with friends and go to the movies? That's cool too, but why not invite me along from time to time?
When I look for a mate, I want someone who can respect me. I may have a handful of ex's, but you could ask any of them how I treated them and they will tell you "like a Prince". There are reasons why they are my ex, but I always take wonderful care of my mate. No- I do not expect the same treatment. I treat you the way I -want- to be treated, but not how I expect. I never expect a thing, but I can sure hope.
Just a bit of appreciation makes going that extra mile all worth it in the end. To have those eyes you love so much, look at you and just tell you how perfect you are and how wonderful you are. Even that you're just too good to them. Isn't that what a relationship is about...? Not how much you can get out of it, but the little things that make you smile day after day.
People make mistakes when they think a relationship is based on money. For those people, I truly feel sorry for you. I'm sure you have all missed out on something wonderful due to the greediness within.
I want someone who loves me and isn't afraid to toss in a little surprise from time to time, like a rose or a small plush. I'm easy to please, never do I ask for anything. Give me respect, and you'll be my Prince. Give me no reason to betray, and I will forever be your loyal Princess.
Is it too much to ask...?
Well~ I don't want someone who is going to stop their activities. If you play a game, that's great! Why not teach me to play...?
If you have opposite sex friends, I don't want you to stop hanging out with them. I do want you to remember that you have a girl friend, who adores you more then they could ever imagine.
You hang out with friends and go to the movies? That's cool too, but why not invite me along from time to time?
When I look for a mate, I want someone who can respect me. I may have a handful of ex's, but you could ask any of them how I treated them and they will tell you "like a Prince". There are reasons why they are my ex, but I always take wonderful care of my mate. No- I do not expect the same treatment. I treat you the way I -want- to be treated, but not how I expect. I never expect a thing, but I can sure hope.
Just a bit of appreciation makes going that extra mile all worth it in the end. To have those eyes you love so much, look at you and just tell you how perfect you are and how wonderful you are. Even that you're just too good to them. Isn't that what a relationship is about...? Not how much you can get out of it, but the little things that make you smile day after day.
People make mistakes when they think a relationship is based on money. For those people, I truly feel sorry for you. I'm sure you have all missed out on something wonderful due to the greediness within.
I want someone who loves me and isn't afraid to toss in a little surprise from time to time, like a rose or a small plush. I'm easy to please, never do I ask for anything. Give me respect, and you'll be my Prince. Give me no reason to betray, and I will forever be your loyal Princess.
Is it too much to ask...?
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In the end, all I ask is to be loved and adored. I love to pamper and do the little things that will in turn give me even a small smile. I do more pampering then people could ever imagine, though I won't say much of it because it tends to be a bit personal... But I will gladly go get you a drink or something to eat. I'll rub your back and feet if you wish. I'll take you here and take you there- I'm one of the most willing females out there to walk this Earth today.
It just seems... People are in it for how much they can get from each relationship. How much money they can gain or how many items they can score from the dumb sap. I may not be rich with green and gold, but I'm overly rich in affection and understanding.
I may have my moments where I'm quit the bitch- but people need to understand that some others come to me in times of need and vent out to me. I can only handle so much at times and at this point in time, I have a lot of medical problems going on. I'm just very clustered right now and still trying to be a good friend and a good mate. I just want people to see there are others out there who are not in it for the gold, but for the love and admiration. Not all females are blood suckers, though I've seen my share. :P
Anyways, I'm also glad that someone is finally willing to post this. I also think that love should not be dependent upon money, but it's gotten to the point that if a guy doesn't pay for a girls meals, he doesn't love her, and that's just BS. It's just like the Beatles song goes, "Money can't buy me love."
Money can't buy anyone love, it can only buy the illusion of love.