well good luck! hope it still makes the "best day of your life" stamp ^^;;

i have on idea what your gender is and i wont guess it coz no matter which one i pick i bet ill still be wrong XD

hope your wedding is every thing you wanted! congrats too :3

THATS ALL I EVER WANTED FROM THE INTERNET 8D FOR PEOPLE NOT TO REALLY EVEN BOTHER TO GUESS, BECAUSE LETS FACE IT IT IS V UNIMPORTANT

for all we know your not even people! you could even be a new breed of apple with arms or a robot or a rock

i swear i somehow read that as 'a rock lobster with a robot apple'

.....you could be that too! your possibilities are endless!

I hope your wedding is fantastic! One in the park sounds like a really nice venue! If she appears just throw something shiny in the bushes, she'll be entertained for hours.

i'll throw a cat in the bushes, maybe she'll be drawn as if by a force greater than her stupidity

Men can't get married now?

Lesbians take over the world.

no joke, that appears to be what people think. i mentioned on the MUD i was getting married (my avatar is actually non-sexed) and some guy was like WELL NOW I KNOW WHAT YOUR GENDER IS ^_^ CONGRATS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND

i replied that i lived where same sex marriage was legal so he really didn't know, and he went O_O

Or is it the assumption that men don't talk like they're getting married? Too manly to mention, unless singing in a bar about how one needs to get to the church on time?

Lol. That guy.

Also, 'unspecified' fits you better then any gender. Don't suddenly become a gender on the internet. I don't want to know. It'll shatter my worldview.

MAYBE?! i don't know, it doesn't make sense to me that it'd be "unmanly" to talk about marriage. unless you were like a skeezy dude cheating on girls left right and center.

Those guys talk about marriage! They're like I'm getting maried! Lets go trolling for pussy to celebrate!

afsdfasdfsd hahhahahaha

Wow. What a fruit. You should have a person to 'seat' everyone and make him/her ask their names to see if they are invited. When she says her name get your seater to tell her she isnt on the list and that she has to leave :>

Also also, plushie looks so cuuuuute <3

ahaha oh gosh that'd be hilarious. but we're not booking the park for the ceremony or anything, just trundling up there. if anyone else happens to be present and watches, that's fine by us.

Hmmmm. Then make sure she has to stand a good few foot away from the ceremony... and then ask a very tall friend to stand in front of her xD

oh, she's not coming. he may have invited her but i un-invited her ass. he isn't in charge of the invites, we are.

Read the extended version.... DAMN

Condolences, hope she doesnt turn up, you're a great artist, but I dont think they let you upload to FA from federal prison.

you never know!
she'd probably flee before my wrath, in all honesty. i'm a short person. but a very frightening short person when i get angry.

We short people always are... so mellow... until you annoy us enough, then the Wrath begins.

Flee pitiful mortals!

flee fast too, because we've usually pre-meditated what we'll do to you...

Tough Break with the wedding, sounds nice to hold it in a national park.

If you are looking for 1920's style suit for the wedding the best place to look, besides the internet, would be your local theater. Even the small community theaters can have huge stockpiles of clothing.

oh she ain't coming. it's just added stress to the whole thing.

there IS no community theatre. this entire valley is culturally bankrupt except for college funded things, and colleges aren't lending their wardrobes out.

Ugn my cousin invited her friend to my mother's private wedding without asking (I mean, atleast you have a heads up! She just appeared there. Oh god my mother was pissed. And not only did they bring uninvited people, they completely disrespected the ceremony and reception)

But Congratulations! Disregarding the minor trouble of a girlfriend being brought, I hope that it will be the best day of both of your lives :3

yeah, i'm glad that we at least were told, even if it was via a proxy because he hadn't the balls to tell us himself.

it SHOULD be pretty great, but the whole lead-up is so stressful.

Usually the lead up is! But it'll be worth it in the end :3

It doesn't matter what gender anyone is a long as they can find love --and you have! I'm sorry to hear about the drama but you know what, dont let the past bother you. You have a wonderful future to enjoy with your significant other! :D Best wishes to you both and may you live a long, happy life together!!!

w0rd :O and i'm sure we will. we've known eachother like ten years and all

aww match made in heaven!

just in defense of people in their late 20's who are forced to live at home... some of us are nice people... and actually behave.... and stuff *coughs* I do understand your frustration about the family trusting him with computers though.... kind of have the same thing happening to me since my older sister works as a computer programmer.... My parents tend to go to her and follow her advice when.... really.... it's not always good advice.... I remember one day when she completely destroyed our wireless network system I had set up... it had been running for five years without complaint till she decided to make it "more secure"

Having to live with your parents after adolescence is nothing to be ashamed of, unless you are capable of functioning on your own & you don't wish to.

Because of the Great Recession, many people, even in their 40's have had to move in with their parents.

Historically, extended families lived under one roof out of both tradition and economic necessity. This is still true in impoverished nations. What the 'Family Values' shit-heads don't tell you is how frequent frequent murder of parents is under this arrangement.

you guys are giving him way too much credit. he has a high paying job and is perfectly capable of surviving on his own, but would rather let mommy take care of things like food, laundry, bills and other grown-up responsibilities while he and his girlfriend post pictures of themselves to facebook.

well
he has a job. and a good one, too. he COULD move out. but he's just too immature to bother to deal with his own place, cooking his own meals, or living his own life. best just to let his mommy handle things like cleaning his room and his laundry, he feels.

Wow, I'm barely making by on what I have to pay for each month and I at least have the responsibility to do most of my own laundry and clean my own room (once in a while). The times I don't do my laundry is when mom asks if I need my jeans washed and she's doing a load of them already.

yeah, like i said :B you guys were giving him too much credit. he's not the "trying but stuck in a bad situation" staying with parents, he's the "immature reinforcing of the stereotype" staying with parents.

I've followed Inhuman and your various travel blogs over the years, your gender has been an enigma. I must say you've done a remarkable job keeping it that way.

I think figured it out, but I don't care to violate your privacy with a lengthy discussion of it.

As for unwanted guests-- I"ll just go and read the extended version of this post.

some people actually get mad that i won't tell them
which confuses the hell out of me but also just encourages me to be a bigger dick about it.

"are you a guy or a girl?"
"yes."

There's a song by an obscure 1960's group, The Barbarians, called Are You a Boy or Are You a Girl?

...from the days when guys with longhair were subject to ridicule by reactionaries, rednecks, retards, and running-dogs.

It does erk me that I have to go 'they' when talking about ya, but I honestly can live with that!

I also think you should pimp slap your brother until he agrees to not bring her. Or just tell him they're BOTH not invited. Either way I hope that shit gets fixed before the big day.

i more or less did just that. he called me immature for it, and i told him to fuck off because it was my fucking wedding.

Good.

...you could just tell him that if his girlfriend comes to your wedding, neither him nor her will go. I suggest hiring an usher in this case; that way if he tries to barge into your wedding (particularly crashing it) with his girlfriend, the usher will kick his as.s Hopefully then he'll have learned his lesson.

that's more or less what i told my sister when she tried to convince me to let them come.

Definitely do it.

YOUR GENDER IS 'REBEL SCUM'. THAT IS YOUR TRUE GENDER I AM RIGHT.

But if your address is the same I'll mail you a wedding present soonish :3 Do you have a favorite candy?

FOR SURE
GENDER SYMBOL IS JUST THE REBEL ALLIANCE LOGO, NO QUESTIONS ALL IS SOLVED

my address is the same and uh. i dunno, reeses cups? :B particularly ones shaped like objects?

gender assumption is very annoying D:

Congrats on getting married though! I hope it goes splendidly. :3

thankth boo :V

Congratulations on your big day! I really hope that the air headed ditz doesn't ruin for you. You also picked a nice place to have it. I've been to Mt. Sugarloaf once in the fall years ago on a school science field-trip. The view of the valley from the top is gorgeous, especially in the fall because you can see all the colors of the foliage.

yeah, nothing will have changed colours yet. but it's still quite pretty. i just hope it doesn't rain :<

mewww~
even tho i dont know ur gender, i would guess male, just cuz iv always thought of you as that one blonde dude wiff the black eye~
but you could also be a girl too :o

but either way, you still on the list of people i look up to c:
mewwwww

i am no blonde!
i jus like drawing blonde hair because you get to have fun with orange and brown in the highlights/shadows

yah, i always assumed u has black hair irl some reason~ o3o mewwww

omg why did this double post? :c
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Oh dude, major family drama >:C wow.

Your stepbrother is an ass, clearly. An immature, ball-less ass. YOUR WEDDING, YOUR RULES. Bottom line.

And the whole gender thing is more fun as a mystery, anyways. It's not like you'd get waster and post pictures of your junk all over the internet in a drunken haze like some people. *shrugs* I just stick to proper nouns when talking about you on Sabrous. Everybody's favorite puffball. :3

EEEEEEEEEEE 1920's fashion wedding ahahaha oh man
that sounds like it will be incredible. Also snazzy.

Yeah, like someone else said, best bet for that kind of clothing would be the Internet (since your town is sans theaters, etc.


haha, all I can think of is Cial in a zoot suit now... :D
even if it may be anachronistic I don't care

people who post their junk online just baffle me. why would you want that online? once you put something online, especially associated with your name, there's no taking it back. do you want to apply for a job, have them google your name, and have YOUR JUNK show up? that's rediculous.

i am the dustbunny of doom >:O

we already got the suits, WE'RE GOOD.

As an absent-minded historian who likes wargaming, I whole-heartedly endorse your course of action.

If I hadn't been hugely pregnant at the time, I'd like to think my husband and I might have gotten married in a national park (if we'd thought of it- it's a fantastic idea) or at a ren faire (which we had actually talked about, but, surprise! baby). Mayhaps we'll take our honeymoon somewhere pretty and nature-y, whenever we get the time/money to do so... x.x

Either way, I hope everything goes smoothly and your day is memorable for all the right reasons. ^.^

Also, 1920s-era clothes for the win!

hahaha thank you, it helps to know other absent minded historians aren't quite so fleeced by this kid