edit: still frustrated, but life goes on
18 years ago
General
Guaranteed to put you to sleep faster than Ben Stein reading the periodical table of elements!
edit: thank you everyone for your support. I appreciate all of you guys for being so comforting when upsetting things keep happening.
I NEVER perpetuate drama. It takes more to get under my skin than most people are even capable of doing, but with SOME things, I just can't HANDLE it. A few months ago, one of the people my ex cheated on me with watched me on FA. I BEGGED them to unwatch me and to just LEAVE ME ALONE, and for awhile, they did.
But now they not only rewatched me again, they're favoriting my things, and all blocking them does is make it so they don't comment. It can't keep them from looking or favoriting.
This might not be a big deal to some people, but every time I even SEE that name on my page, it's like a literal dagger through my heart, that one of the people who was responsible for putting me through hell and beyond should be so cruel as to bother me on here, when I have even asked them NICELY, and I PLEADED with them to just GO AWAY.
WHY ARE PEOPLE SO CRUEL. WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO TORMENT ME WITH REMINDERS OF SOMETHING THAT DESTROYED MY WHOLE LIFE ONCE.
IF YOU ARE READING THIS, PLEASE, I AM BEGGING YOU FROM THE DEPTHS OF MY HEART, JUST LEAVE ME ALONE. I CAN'T DEAL WITH EVEN SEEING YOUR NAME. JUST GO AWAY AND STOP DELIBERATELY HURTING ME. WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BE SO CRUEL? WHY?
FA+

i understand how you never want to see, or even hear the name ever again..
i am too a cheating victim i share that pain
*hug*
what i don't like or understand is why she is like stalking you... i would love to beat her to a bloody pulp just for you, but i don't think that would really solve anything..
*gives Sharra a big hug* The unfortunate thing is you can't do anything really to stop this person.
of a person to do that to you.
Here's hoping this wish of yours does come true.
Best hopes and wishes,
Mark
Well. I'll move on from it best as I can. I hope your Christmas is wonderful, darling
You are more than welcome for the hugs. I know I think people have it in them to do truely illogical and hurtful things because it's in our nature to want to show off or to prove to others we have it in us to be evil. It sucks but I think a lot of us have been guilty of doing it one way or another with something. But she has no right to rub your nose in it as that's just shit. >_<
I would like to add something though...All these people...some you've met, others you've only known by code-names and logos, some you've barely talked while they give off one line comments or hour long paragraphs...all of us you've touched Sharra. You mean the world to a group of people who mostly just know you as a kind hearted unicorn. Anyone who has had the pleasure of really corrisponding with you knows that simply "kind hearted" barely even beings to descirbe the warmth and love you offer everyone that extends a hand your way or begs for a shoulder to cry on.
I hope that the love of so many fills you with enough cherished emotion that one meaningless fucker with a stick up their ass drops away like all insignificant annoyances do.
To borrow from a very old comic book...Anyone who bothers you is "meat to be wasted". ^_^
When all is said and done in life, what matters most at the end is the people whose lives you have touched, and the ones who have touched yours. That will be what I'll always remember, and cherish, through all my days
Anyway...
I've only been here for a relatively short time, but from the first time I met you, I could tell how kind, and considerate you were. You have been there for so many people, as can be seen. May this person one day realize just how foolish they have been.
Best bet... contact admin and tell them what's going on. See if they can do something.
Lotsa furs love you here... that says a lot for who you are.
V.
"Shhh... It'll be all right, don't worry, I'm here for you, if you need me."