When you feel lonely, its natural, be it because you haven't hanged out with friends in a while or even if you do hangout with friends...your missing a special person who fills that empty gap inside yourself...even if you have love ...long distance...thats lonely.. Question is why does THAT make you lonely? a majority of people would say its because the lack of body contact makes you feel alone...

The feeling of being next to a person. I first hand know how it feels and how it feels when its missing... Honestly i have to admit its alot less lonely with a person who is right there next to you then many miles away... BUT lets talk about a few things here.

1.Love.
Love is interesting ...for some its about sex..for others its about taking care of one another and for some its a future person to have a future family with...Most of us here are so young and so damn foolish that we think we "LOVE" someone because of emotions...or she/he is soo cute i must have him/her...well it back fires in the end because people fail to see...the real side of the person...many mistakes have been done, i did in the past..and you have probably too, its best to take it slow and think before acting , think before you go into a relationship, if you plan on hurting the person, just find a **** buddy man don't break a heart!.. and if you know your ready for love then take it slow and get to know a person at least for 6 months in person before saying i want you..that's the best way to avoid a broken heart, it usually happens when someone rushes into a relationship not knowing what they get themselves into.

2. Friends.
friends are friends...unless they are **** buddies, thats different, what is a friend? someone who proves they are a friend to you. Someone who would help you and be there for u , not to use you then gtfo you know? and alot of the people i met everywhere have been like that and i got back stabbed alot by them..so if your friends with someone ...prove it to each other...and if your looking for friends...dont be so eager to trust them..to be honest i cannot trust too many people...i trust a few...and those are real friends...others are just people i know..they would kick me to the curve in a second if they had the chance..to avoid being back stabbed, dont trust so fast, and if u want to be friends with someone and not just buddies then prove it to each other, it takes time to prove whos a friend and whos not, and the few who are my friends have proven it to me though their actions without my word.

3.Body contact (or in person).
It feels alot better then just being online..but sometimes body contact is just a mind game...sometimes its more sinister then you would think..but also alot of people freak out because of it, because they cannot get enough body contact... just be patient!, go to a con or something and hug a random suiter XD , need friends get friends hug them! want more then that? find a special person u want to be with for the rest of your life and do what ever :P

4.dangers of being close.
We all know those dangers... STD's STI's infectious disease , germs, back stabber, heart breaker, hurtful secret , secret of a law broken, or something..its scary...because u never know who your hanging out with until its too late, watch your back, and use protection every time...too many people promiscuous and naive ...suffered greatly because of it...

5. How to survive.
The INTERNET! , online video games,webcam chat, facebook, music, videos, if not that then spend some time with your family and stop being unhappy, YOU GOT A ROOF OVER UR HEAD , A COMPUTER, FOOD, CLEAN WATER,SHOWER, AND EDUCATION....some people dream of having that so stop taking it for granted and use it, if not then find friends/mate and be patient when doing it DX complaining about it makes u lose people u know online.

6. Patience is a great virtue.
So be patient...hate ur family? be patient , u grow to be 21 get money job car house and get out, bad relationship? break up and block him/her, hate ur job? find another then quit, emo? take anti-depressants and seek therapy, hate ur friends? karma will punch them in the face for u just wish em well, need more advice? ask ur friends or better yet ask me XD note me if u need specific advice.

7. Logic vs emotion.
When you think logically, u can see many mistakes emotionally that you could have made and you avoided...so think before you act...or else you'll end up an asshole who everyone hates :3 beeeyyyaaaatch. , mind over matter <_< dont be an ape, u have a brain and only suing under 10% of it..any mental illness could be cured if we just focus on control. control your brains chemical flow and force what u what to do ...its possible..but not too many realize it.




Well thats all for now, Remember you are never alone...you have friends who care and family who loves..even if it does not seem like it...think...you could be on the streets begging for money and food...or you'd be completely isolated and no one will ever know u exist...

PS. OMFG IF SOMEONE SAYS UR BEAUTIFUL ACCEPT IT DX IF U DONT THINK SO WELL TOO BAD U CANNOT JUDGE UR OWN LOOKS. kay? kay.