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Ten Day Meme 3
14 years ago
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot.
Day Seven: Four turn offs.
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession.
1. Honesty. It's easy to smell the stink if someone's being dishonest. Unless you already have me fooled into believing an honest streak. Now being naive and tactless about your honesty isn't what I'm talking about. Taking responsibility for ones mistakes on their own accord, is the biggest example of respectable honesty from me.
2. Appreciation. I do not have expectations for people when I do things for them. I have hopes. But even if the hopes were left wanting, I do not react with entitlement to my gestures. However, to be appreciative, to get engaged in shared activities, to find the little things like singing or scribbling up a doodle, to... Knitting you a warm scarf. That is how you win over my heart. I live, practically, for other people half the time. To entertain, to make smile; to help bring a bit of awesome into all the lives I can, because I know how boring the world is when it's just your onesies.
3. Receiving gestures as above. Not because either of us may have started first, but because we want to give and make the other happy. Being the receiving side of a selfless thought or compliment gives so much to support myself on. Even an OPTIMIST PRIME like me gets a little NEGATRON sometimes.
4. Communication. Talk about yourself and your thoughts with preemptive introversion. Know what you want, or have an idea of where to begin, so we can discuss your feelings, thoughts, wants and needs together. Expressing, and asserting what you need and hope for. The capability to come to me with a problem, not to curl up and keep all your troubles and thoughts to yourself, until they eventually lead to self-destructive or passive-aggressive implosive impulses. Communication is key to the healthiest relationships one can have.
5. Patience. The human mind has needs to be fulfilled , wants to be satisfied, and goals to be achieved. And you may want to work, and get to it as fast as you can. You may want to do this, or that, or this and that. But the capability to take things easy, responsible, in pace is truly valuable to me. Especially when it comes to socializing with one another. People will run out of things to talk about. People will panic and worry that they're unsatisfying, and they have to achieve some "social norm". For me, anyone who can look past that innate fear, and be capable of comfortably sitting with me, saying nothing, doing our own things, sharing company, saying not but a few words of commentary and rhetoricals every so often... That's just where the chill needs to come in motherfuckers.
6. Compromise. Not everything can, or should be unconditional passivism. If you have something you truly, heavily want, assert your desire firmly, with rationale and respect towards others thoughts. Explain the reasoning for your desire for this object/event/entertainment/ect and check it against those around you's wants against it. Do not be aggressive, or entitled for these dilemmas. If it seems that another's desire against yours outweighs your passion, respectfully back off, or find an economic alternative to work off of. This goes for both parties. I will always keep a humbled position when it comes to wants and needs, though I can and will get very passionate about something I REALLY want. If the desire is not shared, or disliked, I will attempt to persuade (and even bribe) to achieve my goal, rather than simply acting on an impulse I'm aware another will dislike with reckless abandon. This also plays in the practically all the past goals, because you NEED to compromise to live together. Not everything will go mine, or your way, the way we want it. It could be money, it could be disagreements, it could be anything else unexpecting. Willingness to compromise is the only way we as people can live symbiotically.
7. Sharing experiences. I am the sort of person who adds a sprinkle of the affection spice into every meal I make. Wether that be movie night with friends or a beloved, or playing the stupidest of video games. This is a hope, and much less a necessity to win my heart as the other 6 have been. I will always hope I can do things with the people around me. Make food, watch things, go out to watch things, sit around in the mall and just sip a slushy, go fishing, go work out together. I am the sort of person who is his best when with someone. Sharing something with me is the way to make me a very, very happy camper.
8. Sex. Sex. Sex. Fucking. Romantic, quickie, kinky, anywhere in between. I'm 18, turning 19, I'm an incredibly energetic and sexually active individual. This is a borderline irresponsible desire, as it comes close to being a "need". What's not to love about sex? It's physically, emotionally, mentally, and chemically stimulating. Physical pleasure, the sort of medicine that fights several aches and pains, a good work out when it becomes so. Not for having sex with strangers, or so much new people, but emotional. Regardless of how casual I like to treat sex, when you fuck someone enough you develop a sense of some good bubbly emotion. Not a prideful "oh yeah i totes fuck dat bitch unf", feeling either. The happy to be wanted, incline of sex appeal. Ect. ect. That ties in with mental feelings. I personally find the emotional a conscious platform, while the mental is more subconscious/mental conditioning. Being wanted, essentially not repulsive makes you feel supported and confident. Since some people need clarification, because they're internet vultures who like to nitpick at anything not made completely elaborate; to recieve confidence solely from sex is stupid, and not what I'm endorsing in any way. And finally, chemicals. An orgasm is a mood lifter, a physically relaxing, happy good time juice. It's natural, it feels great. Fuck. There is no reason against this all. I could've better formulated this wall of text. But I didn't. So live with it. Unf.
So many people try to be so better-than-thou and would never admit that. X3 I love the fact you actually said it. XD
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