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14 years ago
Jang the Rabbit
Do you think a mother who wants to control everything should dictate who two people (the daughter of the mother and the daughters fiance) become friends with and dis own the daughter if she sees her with them?
RL Predicament: So My fiance's mother has basically controlled her her whole life, and said that she can not be friends with her best friend. Just today she found out that we have been visiting and having fun with The person she told us not to hang around with. Now she has called my fiance a "Flying Bitch" and made her cry pools of tears (my fiance is the daughter of the mother whom I'm speaking of).
I really want to go to her mothers house and give her a piece of my mind, But IDK if my fiance would want that... I might just act on my own and do it anyways because her mother is a fucking bitch and yells at her for anything anyway.
Thoughts?
RL Predicament: So My fiance's mother has basically controlled her her whole life, and said that she can not be friends with her best friend. Just today she found out that we have been visiting and having fun with The person she told us not to hang around with. Now she has called my fiance a "Flying Bitch" and made her cry pools of tears (my fiance is the daughter of the mother whom I'm speaking of).
I really want to go to her mothers house and give her a piece of my mind, But IDK if my fiance would want that... I might just act on my own and do it anyways because her mother is a fucking bitch and yells at her for anything anyway.
Thoughts?
You're not going to change this woman. Don't do anything that might alienate your fiancee.
Although if it were me, I'd be asking her if she has any valid reasons why she doesn't want her to be friends with this other person. Maybe the whole deal is because her mother knows something that might hurt people if she continued to be friends.
All else fails, speak with your fiancee about breaking away. Mention that the more "mommy" tries to control her, the less control she really has. It's coming to the point where you just need to ignore her.
Fact of the matter is; your Fiance is fully capable of choosing who she wants to hang out with; no amount of parental control can supercede her adult privilege of self-direction. In short; your Fiancee can do whatever the hell she wants; whenever she wants; very literally. I'm behind you all the way, man; hell, if I could, I'd be right there in her face with ya!