Personal Attacks
14 years ago
There's an FA user that is spending his hours shouting links and making journal entries with his take on my personal life and background. This has been his response to my blocking him from an intelligent journal discussion wherein he reduced the conversation to personal attacks and filled the air with his extravagant opinions.
Please do not assume any of that is true unless you know me or my situation first hand; otherwise it's hurtful and offensive. I care in as much as I give a damn about this fandom, my interest in which is dwindling with each year. If he causes me enough trouble, I'll just leave and let him win his war on this sorry art site.
Please do not assume any of that is true unless you know me or my situation first hand; otherwise it's hurtful and offensive. I care in as much as I give a damn about this fandom, my interest in which is dwindling with each year. If he causes me enough trouble, I'll just leave and let him win his war on this sorry art site.
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cooking. XD
Also, I second what
*hugs*
Trust me, I've gone through similar situations before, and its not easy to get those kinds of people out of your head, but with time and patience, you can get on with your life and be truely happy again :3
I'm getting older and just have too much to do anyway.
Best thing to do is ignore/report them and not say a word to them.
You are too admired and loved by so many people here....why abandon us just over what one person says.
We are all behind you. Hang in there :)
You're falling into the trap.
Suck it up, dude. Everyone gets trolled at more than once in a lifetime.
Yeah...I love it though. X3
Real classy character there.
Let it go, srsly, fuck it.
the best you can do is ignore them and dont give in to their stupid opinions. ill tell you most wont care unless they are trolls too or close friends to that person.
just ignore them, srsly, that's the best way
But, it sounds to me like you really want to pull yourself out of the fandom anyway. If you really want to leave, and it would make you happier, then just do it. You don't need to find an out and justify your leaving to everyone else. As long as you feel justified yourself.
even though you've already stated that what this person is saying is false, we're also not stupid enough to feed into that either. I mean. I've been there before, I really have- I've had to deal with people saying incredibly untrue things about myself, but. I both know and trust that my followers aren't going to believe them, especially when they know that this person and I have had no prior relationship and therefor they don't know a thing about me.
though if you want to leave the fandom, why don't you just leave on a good note instead of just taking your toys and going home because there's some kid who has such little confidence in themselves that they have to resort to personal remarks, on the playground?
I tried to think of what the respective implications and consequences of your possible further reactions would be, and my conclusion is that there aren't any. Stay if you will, leave if you will. Live your life the way you, the one and only person it concerns, see fit if you will.
All I accomplished by writing this was increase the universe's entropy. There is no deeper meaning there that's apparent to myself.
I'm feeling fatalistic today.
I mean, that's just childish, and if there is one thing I'm not, it's childish.
I'm a little miffed that you would think that we'd take the blatant jackass seriously.
Come on, do you really think that anyone who reads your journals would believe anything this little twerp says?
Have some pride man, and have some faith in us.
On the other,
Sorry that such a pathetic troll is trying so hard to ruin your day. The only thing that could get such an obsessive imbecile to stop is having your face magically appear on TV with a long-winded political message declaring you the anti-christ.
Seriously, he's probably that deluded.
Ignore it. Don't let him think that his prattling deserves to be taken seriously. It doesn't
(nothing else will piss him off quite so much, either ;) )
...infrequently.
;_;
I refuse to be dragged into discussions the subject matter of which I do not comprehend, or at least believe I comprehend.
Also, I don't give all that much of a fuck. After having seen ridiculous amounts of furry drama just like this 'battle' of the two of you, It doesn't even sadden me anymore to see such hostility within this supposed fandom of ours. It's like lightning - a natural phenomenon, happening when two forces who can't help being opposed to each other meet, and something I can do nothing about. My agreeing or disagreeing with either of you will not prove either point, and will certainly not increase or decrease both of yours desire to act aggressively towards each other.
In spite of all that, I still cannot help but point out the utter pointlessness of spending so much effort on the activity of disagreeing with each other that both parties present, when the argument has clearly outgrown the potentially meaningful original subject matter, and has become solely about the act of discrediting the other person.
One man can hurt you. One man can make you laugh. One man can break your heart... But the 20+ people on this thread are each one man or woman who appreciate and cares about what you do and who you are... I'm not saying don't care or don't hurt. I'm saying have faith. We trust you.