I think it would be good to move on.

The funny thing is that she's the one that sent that to me when that described her situation exactly with her mate.

But yeah. I'm really torn here. I'm finding all these reasons why I should just never associate with her anymore, but I'm finding even more saying that what we had was too special to give up on.

It all boils down to the question of is it really worth it to wait for her to come around?

Don't wait. Just move on with life. But don't hate her, either. Just be a hippie, like I said. xD Be like, "Eh, whatever. It's cool, man."

If you can happen to become friends again later, then yay. If not, oh well.

And there's also the problem of her being a local, and that there's really no avoiding her.

I REALLY don't want to have bad blood with someone that has the same friends that I do, because that'll just create a ripple effect of problems. That's also been really weighing on me to try to make peace with her.

Well it'll be a while before that, most likely. For now you should just ignore her.

I agree with Barkwolf. True, its gonna be hard to just ignore her, seeing as how u two do live in the same town and all. But the friends u and her got there understand the situation im sure. So, just try to move on. Your hearts not always right, ive found that out a couple times. Just do what it takes to move on. For one thing, your gonna be a way better mood then u usually are now a days.