Male > Female? Hell no!
14 years ago
General
Well, I'll have to apology in advance. Because once again, the pink wolfess is in the mood to vent like a bitch. Something that has really made my blood boil in anger lately, is the way that men have a tendency to view females as inferior beings. Once you've read through this journal, you can probably recognize some of the statements I make, because it's something that we all experience sooner or later in our lives. But as a transgendered faggot who greatly admires females, it's a subject that affects me very personally. You may as well expect a lot of anger and harsh statements in this journal, but if you're not one of the guys who have the problem I talk about, please don't get offended. My anger is only directed towards those that does.
I've noticed that men often measure a person's value in strength and masculinity. Because of this, it's shockingly common that they take femininity as a sign of weakness. This ridicolous assumption falls hard on most ladies, but also on transgendered faggots like me, who identify ourselves as females. Once we're labeled as "weak", they push us down in rank and consider us inferior. And believe it or not, some people take this belief really far, and won't hesitate to treat us like trash. Some will even hurt or damage us, because they think it's more excusable to do such things to someone that people consider inferior. For example, just watch how some males can grab a girl and forcefully rape her, without feeling any remorse. The girl is nothing but a sex object to him, so why care about how it'll affect her emotionally or mentally? And once his ass is dragged into court, there'll always be some douchebags that claim it's her own fault, because she supposedly "enticed" him. Yeah right.
So is femininity a sign of weakness like many thinks? Hah, not even close. What most men tend to forget, is that strength is more than just bulging muscles. From the way I see it, women are often forced to face many more challenges in life than men. That's how nature chose it to be. You masculine males are probably very proud of the fat dick wiggling between your legs, but don't forget that it's the woman who has to carry YOUR child in her womb, for no less than 9 long months. And you can't even imagine how much pain the poor girl has to endure, once she has to give birth. How do you think that you'd handle giving birth to a child? You'd whine like a pig and disgrace yourself by calling out for mommy. Those bulging muscles can't carry you through this situation, pal. This is one of many cases, where ladies are forced to be stronger than males. Mentally AND physically. Because trust me, giving birth is very taxing on a woman's body. So be glad that you can just stand and stare like a cow, while she's writhing in agony, screaming to the top of her lungs.
Now that we're at it, there is a particular part of every woman's life, that I suspect most of them would wish they could forget. The day they received their first period. Yet another disturbing experience, that only few men can fathom. For a girl at that age, it's an incredibly frightening experience to suddenly find themselves bleeding heavily, often followed by cramps of pain. They'll be struck by overwhelming fear, humiliation and frustration. Try imagine how incredibly difficult it is for a young girl, to open up about such things and seek help. Some girls who doesn't know better, might even suspect that there's something horribly wrong. You may think that this is a subject that they can discuss with their parents, but not every girl has been gifted with loving parents that cares enough to listen. Something that really ticks me off, is the way that men tend to react when girls mention their periods. If you're one of the males who'd push away a girl and say she is disgusting for having had a period, you should be fucking ashamed of yourself. It's completely natural, and you're only making it harder for the girl to cope with. Let me ask you this - how much pain, humiliation and blood did you boys witness, when your body matured during puberty? What natural burdens must you live with till you are 40-50 years old? Absolutely nothing.
It's true, neither females or transgendered faggots like me, are gifted with impressive muscles and masculinity. But why does that matter? We were never supposed to be. Why? Because we were born with feminine grace. That was our gift. And no matter if you like it or not, femininity is a strength just like masculinity, but benefitting in other ways. What strength you have in physics and muscles, we have in mind and heart. And no, there is nothing shameful about transgendered males being feminine. We are just ladies who have been born in male bodies. So put those stupid clubs away, and grow up. When has it ever hurt anyone that we dress like females or feminize ourselves, to feel like the women we were supposed to be? Never. I'm sure this is way too overwhelming for your tiny brains to grasp, but females and transgendered faggots are people too. So prick a hole in that inflated arrogancy of yours, and learn to accept that we are all equal, regardless of gender and what differences that seperate us. Put your prejudices aside, and acknowledge the inner strength of ladies and transgendered faggots. As one benefit from femininity, comes the strong sense of empathy. A beautiful trait that connects people, but doesn't get the appreciation that it deserves.
...In the end, masculinity and femininity is like two sides of the same coin, meant to go hand in hand.
I've noticed that men often measure a person's value in strength and masculinity. Because of this, it's shockingly common that they take femininity as a sign of weakness. This ridicolous assumption falls hard on most ladies, but also on transgendered faggots like me, who identify ourselves as females. Once we're labeled as "weak", they push us down in rank and consider us inferior. And believe it or not, some people take this belief really far, and won't hesitate to treat us like trash. Some will even hurt or damage us, because they think it's more excusable to do such things to someone that people consider inferior. For example, just watch how some males can grab a girl and forcefully rape her, without feeling any remorse. The girl is nothing but a sex object to him, so why care about how it'll affect her emotionally or mentally? And once his ass is dragged into court, there'll always be some douchebags that claim it's her own fault, because she supposedly "enticed" him. Yeah right.
So is femininity a sign of weakness like many thinks? Hah, not even close. What most men tend to forget, is that strength is more than just bulging muscles. From the way I see it, women are often forced to face many more challenges in life than men. That's how nature chose it to be. You masculine males are probably very proud of the fat dick wiggling between your legs, but don't forget that it's the woman who has to carry YOUR child in her womb, for no less than 9 long months. And you can't even imagine how much pain the poor girl has to endure, once she has to give birth. How do you think that you'd handle giving birth to a child? You'd whine like a pig and disgrace yourself by calling out for mommy. Those bulging muscles can't carry you through this situation, pal. This is one of many cases, where ladies are forced to be stronger than males. Mentally AND physically. Because trust me, giving birth is very taxing on a woman's body. So be glad that you can just stand and stare like a cow, while she's writhing in agony, screaming to the top of her lungs.
Now that we're at it, there is a particular part of every woman's life, that I suspect most of them would wish they could forget. The day they received their first period. Yet another disturbing experience, that only few men can fathom. For a girl at that age, it's an incredibly frightening experience to suddenly find themselves bleeding heavily, often followed by cramps of pain. They'll be struck by overwhelming fear, humiliation and frustration. Try imagine how incredibly difficult it is for a young girl, to open up about such things and seek help. Some girls who doesn't know better, might even suspect that there's something horribly wrong. You may think that this is a subject that they can discuss with their parents, but not every girl has been gifted with loving parents that cares enough to listen. Something that really ticks me off, is the way that men tend to react when girls mention their periods. If you're one of the males who'd push away a girl and say she is disgusting for having had a period, you should be fucking ashamed of yourself. It's completely natural, and you're only making it harder for the girl to cope with. Let me ask you this - how much pain, humiliation and blood did you boys witness, when your body matured during puberty? What natural burdens must you live with till you are 40-50 years old? Absolutely nothing.
It's true, neither females or transgendered faggots like me, are gifted with impressive muscles and masculinity. But why does that matter? We were never supposed to be. Why? Because we were born with feminine grace. That was our gift. And no matter if you like it or not, femininity is a strength just like masculinity, but benefitting in other ways. What strength you have in physics and muscles, we have in mind and heart. And no, there is nothing shameful about transgendered males being feminine. We are just ladies who have been born in male bodies. So put those stupid clubs away, and grow up. When has it ever hurt anyone that we dress like females or feminize ourselves, to feel like the women we were supposed to be? Never. I'm sure this is way too overwhelming for your tiny brains to grasp, but females and transgendered faggots are people too. So prick a hole in that inflated arrogancy of yours, and learn to accept that we are all equal, regardless of gender and what differences that seperate us. Put your prejudices aside, and acknowledge the inner strength of ladies and transgendered faggots. As one benefit from femininity, comes the strong sense of empathy. A beautiful trait that connects people, but doesn't get the appreciation that it deserves.
...In the end, masculinity and femininity is like two sides of the same coin, meant to go hand in hand.
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"Once we're labeled as "weak", they push us down in rank and consider us inferior. And believe it or not, some people take this belief really far, and won't hesitate to treat us like trash. Some will even hurt or damage us, because they think it's more excusable to do such things to someone that people consider inferior. For example, just watch how some males can grab a girl and forcefully rape her, without feeling any remorse.The girl is nothing but a sex object to him, so why care about how it'll affect her emotionally or mentally?"
You've linked the paragraph to the example of rape..I too used to share the same feeling about this..though have you ever wondered what leads a person to these actions?..we seem to tie it to the idea of " Free Will", yet not many question the extent of this freedom..you see, every oppressor, aggressor, offender and criminal are victims themselves..victims of environments which shaped them to be the way they are..Across the world there are different environments and within these environments are various spheres of influence.
A person who experienced a violent environment at a young age would be shaped to be a violent person..because that person would lack the basic tools of judgement that many of us gain during our childhoods ( Such as the concepts of what is good,bad,right and wrong..how to deal with violence..how to mange emotions (rage,sadness,lust,etc)..how to deal with lacks ( Steal or earn) and such).
I'm not defending these acts, they do indeed cause harm to others..however, what I'm trying to say is that people are a direct product of their environments..we can not hope to solve this problem with the current outdated problem solving system ( Laws ).. because it doesn't go to the root of the problem..the key is to first forgive them for being something they never truly chose to be..but were dictated into by chance..the next is to extend a helping hand..not to just the misinformed 'criminals' but also to the next generation, a better life for them is a better future for all.
In short, I can empathize with their situation, but I won't accept it as an excuse. I -will- hold them responsible for their own actions. And if a rapist dares to ruin a woman's life with forced sex, then I'll chop his pathetic nuts off if he gets anywhere around me.
I've been under the assumption since I met you that you were physically male, but mentally female. Is this still the case? Forgive me, but sometimes the word "transgendered" can mean different things to different people, so I just wanted to make sure. ^_^
As for the points you made, I agree with all of them 100%. Men who treat women as inferior are not men, they're pigs. Actually I wouldn't even give them the distinction of calling them sentient animals. They're more like mosquitoes.
I despise chauvinism in men. Every time I watch an episode of Maury that is dedicated to that topic it makes me want to punch the TV. I wish more men in the world were like you, honey. The world would be a significantly better place in that case.
*Hugs you tightly* I'm very glad that you agree with these points, hon. At first, I actually meant for this journal to be based on how people treat females only. But then I felt it was necessary to include us transgendered people, because... we're ladies too. And these prejudices definitely falls hard on us as well. I stand up and will fight for all types of women... including those of us that were born in the wrong body.
I am truely glad to consider you a sister in the fandom and in humankind. Gods be with you and yours Sinqus. *nuzzles*
It will be a long time before violence against women is wiped out, but slowly and surely people will stand up and be heard.