Pyro, you make a good point. I've certainly seen my fair share of herm/male, herm/female, male/male, female/female and herm/herm work so I'm at least in the same ballpark as you. I've yet to tire of the stories like that simply because it's the storyline itself that is still fun (just being honest; who knows, give me a year and I may be in your same position)...
But let's say for a momen that I am in your shoes. I would want to see more life-like depictions of herm life. Make a series out of it that varies from lots of sex when a herm and her lover are in the same room, to a once-in-the-story-finisher when the characters aren't together or just thinking about each other. Another option is to give the stories a more loving feel. Instead of f*ck hir, hir f*cks him, etc, perhaps just a one shot deal the really focuses on the details. I don't know of many dudes that are able to cum, turn around, stay hard, and stil manage to get their rocks off in a sexy shemale. We need some recovery time for Pete's sake. But I digress...
To your point, we just need the writers to give these characters a background personality. As well as a possible background story just before the sex that makes the reader a bit emotional (perhaps a persecution bit), and then some good loving' and I don't mean sex, I mean real "oh god, I love you" kinda humpin, and maybe some harder f*ckin' at the very end. It just adds an extra dimension to the story that really convinces the reader. And let's face it: that's step number one. If you don't draw them in, they will not cum :p. and between you and me, as a writer/reader, I HATE poor writing in which the grammar or spelling or word choice simply takes away from the story. I've seen those and it's so frustrating that I often stop reading just 3 sentences in (sadly :( ).
As a writer, I take pride in my work and enjoy making people happy or horny or both. :D. Essentially we need some writers that actually read their own work thru to make sure it's great, before posting.
As a final thought, ive got some very nice stories (male/male), in case you need a good read (just shoot me a note :) ).
Well I certainly enjoyed putting my 2cents in ok your subject so thanks for the opportunity. It's always nice to meet someone who has their wits about them and is intelligible enough to have a stimulating discussion with :D.

You haven't posted the stories to FA or anywhere?

No, it's for another site. Exotic Erotics. KIndia like BD. Everyone's nice.

BD? Bad dragon?

Yup. Like BD