Very simple: Weed or cocaine.

im very anti drugs though LOL though i cant tell if your for srs or just playin XD

I'm always serious.

I understand this all too well. In my opinion this seems to be more of a trust issue. You have to put your trust in this person. It may make you feel uncomfortable, but if they love you, it'll be worth it. If he is will you, you ARE good enough. Give yourself some credit. ^^

Sorry if you dun like my advice, just trying to help. v.v

i know he loves me and i him but...i've just always been that way about everythig, i turst him with all my heaert but you cat tell if someone joking on the internet or not you know?

Have you confronted him?

oh yeah hes always joking but i take thigns seriously

im a negative person, theres no such thing as optomism for me <:c

i dunno what to say.....i truly dont.
i haven't had this problem (yet) and i really don't want to.
i guess all i can say is.......try to be positive and i hope for the best possible outcome for you. *hug*

thank you angel, all i can do is try...

i could do a cliched Star Wars quote, but i'd rather not....
and no problem

Just relax.

It seems like you should be talking about this to him, not to us all. >>; Like, you have to make a compromise/set ground rules. He has to tone down his "jokes" and you'll have to try to trust him better. Like he might not take flirting as serious as you, probably cause he knows it's harmless cause he won't leave you. I can see why you'd be upset and not sure what to think, but some people don't always think it's a big deal. In the end, though, don't think, "Oh, I'm the messed up one, I'm weird and wrong," cause he's a little wrong in this issue, too. Good luck, we hope you can try to sort things out with him.

i have tried to ask him to tone things down but he wont <:c thank you my loves, i agree with you and i did tlak to him about it and he said he'll try to tone things down.

I dunno, I'm kind of like that, too. I'm just really jealous and I do think that I'm never good enough. But I just keep it to myself, I don't get mad at him or anything. Because I know that it's just me being silly.

i like to let him know alot

You just gotta stop and think, "Am I being irrational?" because you probably are a lot of the time, as am I. xD