Never before...
14 years ago
I've never been treated so horribly in my life by my own mother. Had to borrow money to help out since there was a major whoops with rent payment. I informed her we would pay her back around the 6th with as much as we could, but I told her it wouldnt be much as we have to pay the next amount for rent on the 1st.
Today rolls along as we are working on wiring the first payment to her and Im barraged by the biggest bitch storm in history all because she misunderstood me and assumed we'd pay EVERYTHING back on the 6th. I was berated in text messages, berated over the phone and now she will probably come after me on Facebook. She has also called Alledrian repeatedly.
I was scheduled to go home for Xmas this year and now Im thinking about skipping out and just staying here in Florida. I really dont know what to do. We can't afford to pay it all back in one go, but she doesn't want to take payments. I am sure my step dad will now get involved and he can be worse than her. Past selling my pc, xbox and tv, I don't really know what to do, how to please someone who can't be pleased.
I have learned one valuable lesson today. Never borrow money from family, shit will hit the fan.
Today rolls along as we are working on wiring the first payment to her and Im barraged by the biggest bitch storm in history all because she misunderstood me and assumed we'd pay EVERYTHING back on the 6th. I was berated in text messages, berated over the phone and now she will probably come after me on Facebook. She has also called Alledrian repeatedly.
I was scheduled to go home for Xmas this year and now Im thinking about skipping out and just staying here in Florida. I really dont know what to do. We can't afford to pay it all back in one go, but she doesn't want to take payments. I am sure my step dad will now get involved and he can be worse than her. Past selling my pc, xbox and tv, I don't really know what to do, how to please someone who can't be pleased.
I have learned one valuable lesson today. Never borrow money from family, shit will hit the fan.

Let
~let
Wow, amazing how she misinterpreted what you meant. "As much as we could" and "everything" don't mean the same thing.

Katathias
~katathias
OP
yeah and even though we are still paying her, she is still acting like its something outstanding. What is worse it's not even HER money, it's my grandma's who GAVE it to them to send to me. I tell you, money brings out the worse in people.

Let
~let
Yeah, I know times are rough, but that's no way to treat anyone. Especially since your her son for pete's sake. I can't believe someone's own mother would actually do this to her own child. Then again, maybe I can; as you said, money brings out the worst in people and even families have little concern over one another anymore.

ty_desoto
~tydesoto
wow thats some fucked up shit right there. I'm sorry you have to be going through all this sweety =/

RobertW7928
~robertw7928
This is one of many dilemmas why moneys evil, causes more problems then it solves, Wish I could help.

Altoryu
~dragon-star
If she can't understand the meaning of part payments, then fuck her, even being your mother, she has no right to act like such a bitch. My own mother would never do that to me