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14 years ago
When it comes to cuddling, I have a sort of dilemma.
First, I love the whole closeness aspect of it, being close to someone else, the comfort of being able to touch another, share their space, the warmth if I'm cold at all. Just being that close to another is satisfying in a way that's hard to describe. But then I get into a couple of problems with it. I start to overheat, to perspire more than I like, plus I get restless if I'm in the same position for very long and need to stretch, shift, rearrange myself from time to time.
Does anyone else have this problem? What do you do about it?
First, I love the whole closeness aspect of it, being close to someone else, the comfort of being able to touch another, share their space, the warmth if I'm cold at all. Just being that close to another is satisfying in a way that's hard to describe. But then I get into a couple of problems with it. I start to overheat, to perspire more than I like, plus I get restless if I'm in the same position for very long and need to stretch, shift, rearrange myself from time to time.
Does anyone else have this problem? What do you do about it?
As for heat, hubby is my personal space heater, I joke that he gives me 1st and 2nd degree burns sometimes when he cuddles me. One option is remove whatever cloth you can, like little or no clothes and cover with a light blanket to cut out other heat sources or sometimes we'll do some touch, such as head on chest, so there is contact but the rest of the body is a little apart and able to stay cooler.