Dude....finding compatible bandmates is a fucking nightmare. So many facotrs that need to line-up in order for shit to work. Someone once told me, "being in a band is like a marriage...but much worse since your dealing with more than two people".

Thats actually why I haven't sought out an actual band in almost 4 years. I just do it all myself. Which has it's limitations, and ain;t quite as fun at times (or, a different fun, anyway), but at least I'm getting shit done, as opposed to waiting around for someone else to get there shit together.

Nonetheless, good luck in your continued search....it's not an impossible task...just a grueling one. Hopefully you have better luck than I.