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13 years ago
Another long silence, I know. There's a lot I'm dealing with right now.
But there is a change of plans, it is likely that I will only be doing fursuits and that kind of thing for friends only. I just simply do not have time to do them on commission, I'm sorry to those who were waiting for me to open for commissions again but at this rate it's probably not going to happen, again I'm sorry.
I will be less active on FA, for some reason I'm just falling out of the whole furry thing. I'm still a furry, still keeping my fursona and all that jazz but I'm just not going to be all about it like I was. I have a life that I need to worry about, career path and all that.
Also there have been rumors flying around which normally I couldn't care less about what people say about me behind my back, but when I keep getting asked about ridiculous things it gets annoying.
So lets take it from the top!
True things first
~Adam and I broke up, 3 months ago. I won't point fingers, place or take blame for the end of the relationship. Two people make a relationship, two people break a relationship. I did however break up with him, if that even matters at this point.
~I did kick him out of the apartment. He was not on the lease, insisted in sleeping in my bed instead of the couch, fights got physical and violent (which I have video/audio recording of, those of you that received a copy know who you are) and I was not about to continue living in an environment like that. He was not kicked out onto the streets with no where to go, that sob story is false, he had his mom and her boyfriend (which I had to call the cops because his mom insisted on causing a scene and insulting me repeatedly in my living room) help move his stuff out of here and into his friends apartment. He's got a roof over his head, my room mate and I have a roof over ours. No pity parties needed.
~I do visit Tucson briefly for a doctors appointments and things like that, those of you who are offended that I don't visit you the day I'm there I apologize. I don't hate anyone, I don't avoid anyone, I don't favor anyone, I just don't have time to call a furmeet every time I'm in town for a few hours.
~I still live in Phoenix, Adam now lives in Tucson. I've been asked why I moved to Ohio... what? I haven't moved anywhere.
~I pay my own bills with my own paychecks, some people think its cute to spread rumors that my Dad pays all my bills to make me seem more dependent. I don't and never will depend on any man for anything EVER. I'm not a weak person, and I won't let anyone try to tell me or my friends otherwise.
~My hours have been cut at work for summer, the college kids go home so work slows down by a lot. I'm not getting fired, transferred or anything like that. I actually have my 1st of 2 promotion interviews today!
~I did change my number, if you would like the new number you can email me about it. I did block certain people's numbers/facebooks/emails, if that was you or your room mate then you get the picture, I don't want to talk to you because we have nothing to talk about, sorry.
FALSE things last
~I am not insane, the actions I have taken are from a completely sane and coherent mind. I do not enjoy feeling trapped, I do not enjoy being scared and most of all I don't enjoy being controlled. No one gets to decided how and feel and when I feel that way, the actions I took were selfish and for my own happiness and goodwill. According to me and my close friends, its about damn time.
~My birth control has not warped my mind into making irrational decisions, breaking up with my boyfriend was not an irrational decision. I was unhappy for many reasons that were not as simple as leaving the seat up. Again, I did not make an decision that I now regret, I am a happier and free individual and I love life.
~I have not developed a mental disorder. This claim is simply ridiculous! I am not bipolar, I am not schizophrenic, I am not a psychopath, I am not a sociopath, I am not a lunatic and I do not have a complex of any kind.
~I am not crippled by depression and sadness, and I am not sleeping every guy in the world either. As cute as those rumors are, its about time people grow up a little bit, just maybe.
~Neither me or my room mate stole money or items from Adam or his family, if he honestly believes so then by all means we'll see you in court instead of hearing the lies through the grape vines.
If you have any other rumors that need addressing then PLEASE bring them to light, I think I've heard most of them by now at least. This is an opinionated journal, so of course I have bias for myself and my room mate and against Adam and any other rumor spreading origins.
This is not calling anyone out, this is not an open arena for attacking either. This journal was intended to clear some BS thats been floating about, both sides of the story should be told but I refuse to go into any more detail than I already have.
Ready, set, DRAMA.
But there is a change of plans, it is likely that I will only be doing fursuits and that kind of thing for friends only. I just simply do not have time to do them on commission, I'm sorry to those who were waiting for me to open for commissions again but at this rate it's probably not going to happen, again I'm sorry.
I will be less active on FA, for some reason I'm just falling out of the whole furry thing. I'm still a furry, still keeping my fursona and all that jazz but I'm just not going to be all about it like I was. I have a life that I need to worry about, career path and all that.
Also there have been rumors flying around which normally I couldn't care less about what people say about me behind my back, but when I keep getting asked about ridiculous things it gets annoying.
So lets take it from the top!
True things first
~Adam and I broke up, 3 months ago. I won't point fingers, place or take blame for the end of the relationship. Two people make a relationship, two people break a relationship. I did however break up with him, if that even matters at this point.
~I did kick him out of the apartment. He was not on the lease, insisted in sleeping in my bed instead of the couch, fights got physical and violent (which I have video/audio recording of, those of you that received a copy know who you are) and I was not about to continue living in an environment like that. He was not kicked out onto the streets with no where to go, that sob story is false, he had his mom and her boyfriend (which I had to call the cops because his mom insisted on causing a scene and insulting me repeatedly in my living room) help move his stuff out of here and into his friends apartment. He's got a roof over his head, my room mate and I have a roof over ours. No pity parties needed.
~I do visit Tucson briefly for a doctors appointments and things like that, those of you who are offended that I don't visit you the day I'm there I apologize. I don't hate anyone, I don't avoid anyone, I don't favor anyone, I just don't have time to call a furmeet every time I'm in town for a few hours.
~I still live in Phoenix, Adam now lives in Tucson. I've been asked why I moved to Ohio... what? I haven't moved anywhere.
~I pay my own bills with my own paychecks, some people think its cute to spread rumors that my Dad pays all my bills to make me seem more dependent. I don't and never will depend on any man for anything EVER. I'm not a weak person, and I won't let anyone try to tell me or my friends otherwise.
~My hours have been cut at work for summer, the college kids go home so work slows down by a lot. I'm not getting fired, transferred or anything like that. I actually have my 1st of 2 promotion interviews today!
~I did change my number, if you would like the new number you can email me about it. I did block certain people's numbers/facebooks/emails, if that was you or your room mate then you get the picture, I don't want to talk to you because we have nothing to talk about, sorry.
FALSE things last
~I am not insane, the actions I have taken are from a completely sane and coherent mind. I do not enjoy feeling trapped, I do not enjoy being scared and most of all I don't enjoy being controlled. No one gets to decided how and feel and when I feel that way, the actions I took were selfish and for my own happiness and goodwill. According to me and my close friends, its about damn time.
~My birth control has not warped my mind into making irrational decisions, breaking up with my boyfriend was not an irrational decision. I was unhappy for many reasons that were not as simple as leaving the seat up. Again, I did not make an decision that I now regret, I am a happier and free individual and I love life.
~I have not developed a mental disorder. This claim is simply ridiculous! I am not bipolar, I am not schizophrenic, I am not a psychopath, I am not a sociopath, I am not a lunatic and I do not have a complex of any kind.
~I am not crippled by depression and sadness, and I am not sleeping every guy in the world either. As cute as those rumors are, its about time people grow up a little bit, just maybe.
~Neither me or my room mate stole money or items from Adam or his family, if he honestly believes so then by all means we'll see you in court instead of hearing the lies through the grape vines.
If you have any other rumors that need addressing then PLEASE bring them to light, I think I've heard most of them by now at least. This is an opinionated journal, so of course I have bias for myself and my room mate and against Adam and any other rumor spreading origins.
This is not calling anyone out, this is not an open arena for attacking either. This journal was intended to clear some BS thats been floating about, both sides of the story should be told but I refuse to go into any more detail than I already have.
Ready, set, DRAMA.
Contacting and threatening me and multiple friends of mine was as far as it went though, which is farther than a break up should ever go. But no one is hurt, despite the scare we had with the cops and all that.
He saying I cheated on him with my friend's best friend and with my best friends girlfriend, both cases are false. I'm not sure who else he's claiming I slept with, its sad that all of these random evidence-lacking accusations are spewing out of no where.
I'm a good person, I might be weird and morbid but in no way am I the vicious, mean, sex addict bitch that he's making me out to be.
it is horable that there would be this much information floating around. more so that people would take it seriously enough to cause drama and issues for you,
hope to actually see and or hang out with you some time.
Why is it people can't ever just "I don't get along with X person, but they're like, cool on their own, just, we're not cool together"
its always "X Person is the DEVIL BECAUSE WE ARE NOT BFF'S! AND ALSO ARRRGH RAEG!!!" I just, I don't get it.
Anyway, Keep on Keepin' on, I spose. I dunno if you'll even see this comment since I am months behind the curve.