Jees. I'm sorry to hear all this is happening to you.
You don't deserve it.

Also, if your brother is of age; I come from a family where if you are "Mature" enough to make your own family, you are Mature enough to get out and take care of your family like a grown man does.

I wouldn't necessarily bring this up. It could hurt feelings.
Although, he has no right to threaten his life. After all, your Mother gave it to him.

I'm in the same boat myself.
I am Pregnant with my second, living with my Fiance who pays the rent for his Mother's house.
His Sister and her 4 horrible kids moved in because they got "Bed Bugs". So now, my 2 year old is acting like an ass because of her bad behaved children. They lack discipline. Not to mention they destroy everything they touch, they don't listen, they lie in school about people here beating them. So now we have CPS in and out of our house and my Fiance's sister does nothing. They eat all the food, so I lack the nutrition I am to give to this Unborn. Oh and the drama does not stop there. Her lazy, layabout Cheating Man comes here and starts drama. Like hitting her and whatever. Reason why his kids are so messed up. Like I want mine to grow up in that. But, my Fiance's heart is too kind to kick everyone out. I understand it's his sister and all, but sometimes, you have to do what you have to do.

And that goes for you as well luna. Do what you have to.

So yeah. Kinda understand how you're feeling right now.

im sorry to hear about all the stuff that's happening, but congrats on your second baby ^^

and...yea. no good person, me or you, or anyone really, should have to go through bad stuff. But, that's what my friend said. All the good people have a hard life.


Yea and he SHOULD be mature enough to act like he's an adult, he's 22, but my brother still acts like an annoying child. he ALWAYS got what he wanted, and my mother understands that. she wanted me to have what i wanted but it was always "im sorry (mynamehere) but your brother needs this" or so, that's what i heard them fighting about one time.

and im not mad at my mom. i understand her. But, my brother just blames her for all his mistakes. He even said "if i lived with my dad, i probably would have had a better life". His dad is in jail. Yea, he's my half-brother.

things have calmed down here but it's just like how our old apartment was when they lived with us. Bugs and food everywhere, fighting. That sort of stuff.

but i am sorry to hear those little monsters and their parents have to live with you :( i understand how you feel.

and thank you. Ha. You always make me feel better fay ^^

Thanks lol.

But yes it is sadly true. The good people have the bad lives.

Yeah, he's old enough to get out there and raise his family.
I understand how your mother feels. She gives him everything, yet he still blames her.
That happens alot in families. Don't know why, but it's terribly common.
Mother's aren't too quick to deny their children, so that may be why she still gives him everything; despite what he says and does.

Is it good? No, but I know she feels like she has no choice.
Maybe you could comfort her in some way. There is something called "Giving too much". You give too much to someone and they grow to depend on you for everything. My youngest sister was that way with me but then I told her, "If I were to die right now, what would you do?". Horrible question, but it could happen. That's why parents teach independence for occasions as such.

Half-brother or not, he's still your brother and there's nothing you could really do about it. I tried to disown my sister once, but it never works out like that. You have to stand all the heartache. Don't worry, it'll get better once all you guys are grown and living your own lives. I promise. Things like what's happening to you and me right now, only happen when family comes back and wears out their welcome stay.

Little Monsters is right. Terrible that I feel that way, but it happens.

And you're welcome Luna! I'm always here for a chat.