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Skittle 101!
13 years ago
General
Since some aspects about me and my identity are somehow hard to comprehend and I am tired of explaining them. WELCOME TO SKITTLE 101!
- I am a female-to-male transgender person. That means I am male. I go by he, him, his, etc. Being transgender is not a gender identity in and of itself. Being transgender is simply just a description of my past or current medical/bodily/birth history.
- I like stereotypically female clothing. Tight pants, girl t-shirts, bright colors, heels, etc. This is entirely separate from my gender. Liking female clothes does not suddenly make me less male.
- Thinking that being trans* somehow makes me some exception to cross-dressing, is absurd. Me cross-dressing is no different than a cisgender male cross-dressing.
- What is under my frilly clothing doesn't affect anything either. Do you want to sleep with me? No? Then it is none of your business what it under my clothing. Doesn't change my gender or my cross-dressing.
- Here is a link explaining why I call myself a cuntboy (sometimes).
- I identify as queer because there are some women and gender variant people I find attractive. How my partners and I have sex is none of your business. We have sex (and lots of it) and that is all you really need to know. Then again, you don't even need to know that.
- I'm in a gay relationship with
fritter, neither of us is the woman or the man. We're both men. Please do not heteronormatize my relationship. Save the hetero shit for my relationship with my girlfriend, 
livvy. That is still pretty queer though.
- Do not be surprised if I get annoyed, testy, etc. when you ask anything explained here. While I am happy to educate, please do not pry into my life. To most of you I am a stranger. Do not ask me questions you would not ask some random stranger on the streets.
- Do not ask me questions that you can easily type into google to find answers to. I also have links to my subreddit that has links to a Trans* 101 and an FAQ. Please educate yourself before asking me anything related to being trans* or queer.
This is subject to change as more things come up, situations happen, etc. I will answer some questions here as a way to build this up. If there is something not covered you are curious about, ask. Please be respectful though and keep in mind everything mentioned here. Thanks.
- I am a female-to-male transgender person. That means I am male. I go by he, him, his, etc. Being transgender is not a gender identity in and of itself. Being transgender is simply just a description of my past or current medical/bodily/birth history.
- I like stereotypically female clothing. Tight pants, girl t-shirts, bright colors, heels, etc. This is entirely separate from my gender. Liking female clothes does not suddenly make me less male.
- Thinking that being trans* somehow makes me some exception to cross-dressing, is absurd. Me cross-dressing is no different than a cisgender male cross-dressing.
- What is under my frilly clothing doesn't affect anything either. Do you want to sleep with me? No? Then it is none of your business what it under my clothing. Doesn't change my gender or my cross-dressing.
- Here is a link explaining why I call myself a cuntboy (sometimes).
- I identify as queer because there are some women and gender variant people I find attractive. How my partners and I have sex is none of your business. We have sex (and lots of it) and that is all you really need to know. Then again, you don't even need to know that.
- I'm in a gay relationship with
fritter, neither of us is the woman or the man. We're both men. Please do not heteronormatize my relationship. Save the hetero shit for my relationship with my girlfriend, 
livvy. That is still pretty queer though.- Do not be surprised if I get annoyed, testy, etc. when you ask anything explained here. While I am happy to educate, please do not pry into my life. To most of you I am a stranger. Do not ask me questions you would not ask some random stranger on the streets.
- Do not ask me questions that you can easily type into google to find answers to. I also have links to my subreddit that has links to a Trans* 101 and an FAQ. Please educate yourself before asking me anything related to being trans* or queer.
This is subject to change as more things come up, situations happen, etc. I will answer some questions here as a way to build this up. If there is something not covered you are curious about, ask. Please be respectful though and keep in mind everything mentioned here. Thanks.
And it will read
- Hi I'm Rye.
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Applies to me so much. Yes.
:c I wish it was more acceptable and common knowledge that this is totes ok.
so i think you are far superior to me right now! you are a guy who is immune to being kicked in the crotch! so yeah... i suppose you really are the true dildo king .__.
but on a more serious note, i think it is interesting that you actually do call yourself a "cuntboy". i mean sure, it IS a rather accurate desciption but to me it always sounded more like an insult^^
and of course your clothes dont make you less of a guy. a guy who is wearing a dress is still a guy unless he doesnt want to be called a guy.
Cuntboy is considered an insult to most trans guys cause it is a porn term that limits their identity down to their born with anatomy. Also, cunt is just considered a really nasty word.
personally i just wouldnt like to be called something that does have a nasty word in it^^ i dont see it differently than any other word and i am not afraid to use words like that but still, i wouldnt want to label myself like that. but hey! everyone has a different relationship to words like that. so i really dont have a problem when you personally chose to label yourself like that :3 quite frankly, its none of my business. all that i have to care about is using the right pronouns when talking to or about you because i dont want to offend you.
Oh I did have a semi-srs question I guess, when did you decide to transition and start going by he? It feels like not too long ago because a ~certain someone~ couldn't start calling you that for whatever stupid reason
anyways yeah
YOU USED TO BE A CHICK?
I DON'T THINK I CAN BE FRIENDS WITH YOU ANYMORE. GET OUT OF MY APARTMENT!
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