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A Interesting Question
13 years ago
so its almost 2:30am here and I had a random question pop into my head. The question is as follows; Has anyone ever felt their personality switch on occasion or in certain situations?
With me this seems to happen often. Like some days i will feel tough, cocky, on top of everything. I guess pretty much manly if i could put it in a one word phrase. Other times i feel very girly or feminine, flamboyant if you will. I mean yeah i know I'm bi and all of that but would that really cause such a dramatic shift in my personality. Even during the course of one day this can happen once or twice. One min i got this tough guy walk going, my actions are pretty boyish if that word could do any justice describing the action. Then the next min I feel all girly. Hands on hips, twirling my hair, even getting a bit of hip action in my walk. I mean i don't know if i really am walking like that but in my head i feel like i am.
I mean maybe it can be affected by like the situation I'm in or something i just watched. Like I'm adapting my personality to my surroundings or something. But again sometimes it just comes out of no where. Not really sure if I'm the only one that tends to do this or there are other people out in the world that shares a similar experience.
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With me this seems to happen often. Like some days i will feel tough, cocky, on top of everything. I guess pretty much manly if i could put it in a one word phrase. Other times i feel very girly or feminine, flamboyant if you will. I mean yeah i know I'm bi and all of that but would that really cause such a dramatic shift in my personality. Even during the course of one day this can happen once or twice. One min i got this tough guy walk going, my actions are pretty boyish if that word could do any justice describing the action. Then the next min I feel all girly. Hands on hips, twirling my hair, even getting a bit of hip action in my walk. I mean i don't know if i really am walking like that but in my head i feel like i am.
I mean maybe it can be affected by like the situation I'm in or something i just watched. Like I'm adapting my personality to my surroundings or something. But again sometimes it just comes out of no where. Not really sure if I'm the only one that tends to do this or there are other people out in the world that shares a similar experience.
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But mostly...it's a feeling I wanna scream, or sleep in the morning.....
I don't think it's just you, because others get it too xP
I also do experience mental changes, one minute I'm happy and the next I'm real upset. If thats an issue.. I don't know, sorry xD
If I watch a movie, or read a story, and a certain character has very strong feelings (like anger or depression) I slowly sink into his/her shoes so deeply, that I end up being pissed off, or depressed. Its strange, but I don't mind it much.
I blame it on a few things-
1) could just be those hormones and testosterone going haywire.
2) more likely underlying mental problems manipulating the way I think
3) maybe it's not as extreme as I really think and they're just normal emotions/ attitude changes brought on by environmental/ conditional factors that I am putting more thought into than they deserve.
They could be just brought on by current emotion too. Think of it as each one is a different mood where mean=mad, cocky=insecure/anxious but hiding it, scared/needy=sad/depressed, and happy= well happy.
Maybe you're acting more manly when you feel slightly insecure and like you've got something to prove, and then you get all sily and girly when you're really comfortable and happy. Who knows, I am no professor lol
Either way, i think it's fairly normal for one's beliefs and attitude to change depending on the situations he is in or the people he's around. You're not alone at all in that sense.