Never, and I mean NEVER, for any reason what so ever other than meeting new friends and sharing art, should you add my account name you your IM list. Im telling ya right now. No RPs, no e dates, and please, please, do not add me because you seem my account icon and think im a girl, this one guy has done that already, even rested to uysing the name of an artist here on FA to fool me into adding him. So, unless you PM me, or whatever, Im no longer leaving my IM address up. ad Im gonna ask who everybody is before adding, just to make sure your who you say your are. Also.....im not a good looking person, and not cut out for love....been a fool of it, and now just nopt even gonna get on that level with anyone anymore. If your not here physically, or within a skip and a hop away *34 miles or less* then its not gonna work out. that, and if we hadnt known eachother of longer than 5 months, then Im sure its not gonna last either. Im very female biased, so im sorry if im not gay....I mean, one offer was very flattering, but I just couldnt do it....i couldnt find it in me. Also, i understand changes have to be made, but non too drastic....and please, if I cant hold to it, then at least accept me for who I am, not what I look like. And dont lie to me if I tshow you a pic of me...and dont butter me up neither, Im ugly, and nothing in this world short of plastic surgery is gonna change that, lol. But in all seriousness....im trying to limit the amount of these things as much as possible. Just dont think im up to all that anymore......and its driving me into the dirt.