So I told her I was gonna go to counseling...she starts to get upset and blame herself for all of this. I tell her regardless I want my problems fixed, she gets even more upset, she starts saying I don't care about us and that she hasn't helped fix anything. I finally get pissed off, I don't talk to her for an hour, all the while she's trying to call me back and text me, finally I answer the phone, she apologizes for the hundredth time, then her dad comes on, calls me a piece of shit, tells me to get my head out of my ass and says it's my fault...

...have I missed something?