So, I believe there are some people on here slandering my name.
I do not appreciate this sort of thing. I was selling some fur and Shipped some overseas for a buyer. I used the money they paid in order to ship it. After weeks of being nagged about it the buyer eventually (predictably) decided it hadnt arrived and demanded a refund (rather rudely). There is no proof that she hasnt recieved the item and I have proof of postage of the item.

I have since discovered that she is now slandering my name as some sort of con person, claiming I ignored messages, was rude and didnt send the item.
I am utterly disgusted at the lengths some people go to to get a free ride. There's a massive ocean for the parcel to travel across and it often takes months. I personally have had to wait 3 months for a tshirt before. You can't personally attack a seller for delays in delivery. If you don't want to risk it don't order from overseas.

I am not an official business, this is a hobby. I can not afford to go refunding everyone who suddenly decides they're items "havent arrived"

I will not be shipping large items overseas again and all small items will be shipped recorded delivery, I wanted to keep costs down for any buyers but it seems I can't afford to trust people.