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13 years ago
Hate to say this but ever feel so worthless that it feels like nothing goes right? That's how I feel right now.... No job, no money, I'm going to college but my parents are paying for it and everything else and it feels like they are holding it over my head. I'm fat and gay and my dad hates that about me. I could care less what my dad says or thinks but it still hurts ya know? Just feel so worthless right now... ;_;
Seriously though, you just can't let it get to you. Always look on the bright side of life~ *hugs*
You are not worthless, you mean the world to me.
Hell who else would hang out with a wounded dead panda?
~smiles~
Besides as my hubby says your not fat your fluffy XP
We love ya, hun. You're not worthless!
PM me sometime, if ya want somebody to talk to.
you have to begin to incrementally make things better for yourself.
also you have to prioritize...
Employers are now (more than ever) taking Health (and perceived Health)
into consideration.
if you bring your weight down maybe you will have (slightly) better chances
at getting hired...
You've got to commit yourself to some changes to lose weight.
drink primarily water ( limit 1 soda per day, the rest water), this helped me lose almost 20lbs.
Eat smaller portions, eat slower. take a caffine pill before a meal.
finally excersice, get out and walk and talk with someone for an hour a day,
you're not employed you got time to do this.
the job thing, yeah its who you know, but also its about being awesome in person
and a go-getter. you just gotta put yourself out there. Maybe try Costco, if you're
still stayin in the same area Costco is VERY Close.
don't feel bad Balzer you can do it, you just gotta make yourself do it,
incremental changes to your routine will establish a permanant routine.
and Being GAY is not a bad thing. You cannot change it, so do not grief over it.
also getting a job when you're educated is harder, than getting a decent base-wage job.
So if you're not able to get a base wage job, it will be even harder when you've got education.
of course when you finally do get that job... you will be PAID~
*hug*
Try looking at your community other furs. See how they live and cope with their problems.
Yes, actually, your parents do have a right to be critical to some extent.
Maybe weight is an issue. But you know what? That can change with simple diet and exercise. Don't get depressed because that actually has a two-fold effect it will lower your immune system making you more likely to get sick and it will make you start gettin fatter because you'll turn to comfort food and your body will also be more likely to store fat when you are depressed.
To become un-depressed focus on more extroverted goals.
Parents will never admit they are proud of you, or will not always say the right things. But they are human. Learn to love it is the most powerful weapon against evil.
Fight hate with love.
Love yourself and you can love anyone. Because we're all equal parents included.
Things will work out.
Hang in there.