Very nice, love is something special and rare. I glad to you found each other. In all my 57 years I have never really loved anyone. I feel great empathy to others but may be unable to truely love another person.
Interesting enough it happen to me this week. I was chased and started have serious feeling for someone. Now ex is back in the picture with both of them sharing cabin in the snow. Currently this leave me alone trying to healing up from my blindness, empathy issues and relationship break up. It's left physically drain to the point of feeling my hip pain again. For the past 30 years I thought that I was unable to feel emotion of love. I know that the empathy that I have gained this year included the gift of love. But due to me being such a rare creature I feel it's a curse. The chance to find someone my age and furry unlikely.
Well, you know you can feel love. As much as it hurts when things go bad, if you are capable of feeling it, you will feel it again. I was expecting and accepting that I would spend the rest of my life alone. I thought what would be my last chance at a mate had slipped away (I seriously misread it, but that's another story) and I was fine with that. Meeting and getting to know Takashi was a totally random thing at the time. I didn't expect anything more than friendship. Once he started expressing interest in dating I tried my best to talk him out of it. I told him he should find someone his own age and not bother with a boring, fat old man, relatively speaking as I'm over twice his age. He kept insisting that age is just a number and irrelevant when it comes to love. He wouldn't give up and finally wore me down until I agreed to be his mate. I'm so glad he did. As soon as I decided to give it a try I fell so much in love with him. I was really nervous when he asked about moving in. I was worried his feelings would change if he was around me all the time. They did, but not in the way I feared. Our love grew stronger and we both realized we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.
The point of this long story that's probably boring to everyone but me is that your age and being a furry won't make one bit of difference to the one who's meant to be with you. I know you have so many painful things going on right now that it may be hard to have a positive outlook but don't give up. Maybe all this is preparing you for the best things ahead. I know I haven't known you all that long but I know you're a good person. It seems sometimes the worst things happen to the best people, but the bad experiences in life only make the good ones that much better.
*cries* I really hate that I missed your wedding. It was a very beautiful ceremony.
I wish the both of you a very long and happy life together.
Now get going and enjoy your honeymoon. I hope to see the both of you soon down in New Orleans .
I know you would have been there if you could. Neither of us have ever been to New Orleans. Sounds like we might need to plan a trip down that way sometime.
The point of this long story that's probably boring to everyone but me is that your age and being a furry won't make one bit of difference to the one who's meant to be with you. I know you have so many painful things going on right now that it may be hard to have a positive outlook but don't give up. Maybe all this is preparing you for the best things ahead. I know I haven't known you all that long but I know you're a good person. It seems sometimes the worst things happen to the best people, but the bad experiences in life only make the good ones that much better.
I wish the both of you a very long and happy life together.
Now get going and enjoy your honeymoon. I hope to see the both of you soon down in New Orleans .