Carry on and live well, I don't mean to be reckless with yourself or drink, but make yourself carry on and make yourself look forwards to your goals hopes and dreams that remain.

thanks man, im just trying to take it day by day at this point. I'm using the new found extra time in my life to enjoy the little things.

Hey I know what hard times are like, my partners are scattered to the wind right now, two in England dealing with the economy there and one teaching in English in Spain while I fight through school over here in Arizona. That's a hurt of a whole different sort, but what makes being a furry so good is that no matter how hard things might be, we try to be there for eachother...even just a few kind words, they go a long way. The community as a whole cares, you're never alone.

Thanks man. Your right, the kind words and support here definately are helping me through this. Thank you.

No worries, pass it on some time, it'll make you feel even better if you do and it helps the community. On another note, I'd love to talk more some times.

Really sorry to hear that, man. Just keep your head up and find things to distract yourself. Drawing, writing... project car if you have the time and cash? I really don't know anything about what happened, but if you need someone to vent to, I'm definitely willing to lend an ear.

Thanks man. I got no space for another project vehicle right now since I sold the legend. Maybe one day when I have more room. The short version of what happened basically goes like this: she started going psycho. She disrespected me, my family and my friends to a point where I had to choose between staying with her and losing them or losing her and keeping them. I was holding on until she went behind my back and disrespected me, then I lost all love and trust for her. :( To make matters worse, after we broke up she ended up burning what little bridge was left between her and my friends, making it now impossible for me to ever take her back without losing them competely. *sigh* she's downright delusional too, she still thinks I'm her boyfriend and will get back together with her; not a chance in hell at this point.

This sounds very bad for me to say but I've gone through a very similar dating experience to yours a while back. She was incredibly jealous towards anything that took even a sliver of attention from her, and that included family, friends, electronics, even my cats. She's also the reason why I eventually had to go to slushboxes for a while so my knee could heal up.

Moral of the story is that it's far, far better to be alone than it is to be with someone that poisonous.Take this time to do pretty much whatever you want without feeling restricted by someone else's drama. In short, live it up if ya can. :D

amen to that brotha!

Hey Swift, figured I'd post something up to see how you were doing. Breakups are hard, no matter if it's a month to a decade, (granted, not the best way to put it...>>,) but there is beauty in such a beast, the beauty being the lessons you learn and what to watch out for in a future relationship. I just recently got out of a nearly year-long relationship, just keep in mind that there is someone out there for everyone. Hold your head high and remember that you are an awesome person and you will find that someone someday. Also, as some food for thought: Don't search for your future through your past. It just doesn't work out. >A<, Sorry if I seem rude, I'm really trying not to seem so. ;A;

~Edgy.

thanks dude. Ya, its not my first breakup... hopefully it will be my last but you never know. It just sucks that the person i asked out when we first started dating was in no way shape or form the monster I ended up dealing with in the end.

:(

ya, i know dude.