what did i do to deserve this T.T
13 years ago
Tonight i went for a drive since i had a free night, and I haven't had a chance to just go out for a drive since i got my licence, so i took the oppertunite and went out, after a couple minute i figured i passes a timmies, so i stoped in for a coffee, with no real cash i headed in side (I hate using debit through the drive thru windows).
When i got inside who should happen to be there, K (this is what i will be refering to him as, i dont want to offend anyone from my area who happens to be friends with him), a guy who has been after me since highschool, and as he's told me on more then one occations He wants to fuck me, not date me, not have any sort of relationship, he just wants to fuck me, Why because i always tell him no, and before anyone sayd just do it he'll lose intrest, No, i have to much self repect to submit to that chauvinistic pig! Over the last 4 years since he left school he's somehow manged to get my number and texts me between 2-6 times a day always making borderline sexual comments and asking me if i want to get coffee or come hang out.
Well I gave him a nod to say hi, hoping he'd leave me alone as i went about ordering my tea, only to have to stand beside him to get it, he than found away to kinda cage me into the area, making the female serve feel uncomfurtable since we often joke around when i go in, but since he wasn't doing anything really besides standing there, she couldn't really say anything, he started talking to me, keeping me in that space, blocking half the serving counter, so i looked at him and said why dont we sit down, since they were people coming in and I knew the server was having a hard time trying to find the words to dislocate him from the counter, he lead me over to a table, before trying to offer my the corner seat so I'd have to go by him to move or leave, but i stole to open seat (something i hate doing since it leave my back open), so i could bolt if need be.
Talking to him felt just like olf times, all about him, what he liked, what he was doing, which was fine since i didn't want to be there, till he started making refences to his jeep, and offering me a ride home, I put my foot down with this, telling him i had my yukon there, and i didn't need a ride, this must of have hit him the wrong way because next he was telling me how i was wasting my money and it was a crap vehical that had to have something wrong, I started getting pissed and wanted to leave, but then he again changed the topic, telling me how he'd broken up with him girlfriend of 3 year, then to asking about a friend i'd perviously dated, to which i'd said that we were still friends, and that i'd had dinner with him not long before now, he asked if me and him still have a thing or if we are sleeping together on the side, and i was like, no, we are jsut friends and i dont date friends, or sleep with them since it just compliments things, he then said that 'there are some friends you can sleep with without complicating things,' I wanted to run, cry scream, but i just excused myself to the washroom, hoping to maybe sneek away, but the seat he's chose was great for him since i couldn't fake out going to the bathroom and run for the doors without him seeing.
When i got into the bathroom, i quickly texted
asking her to come save me, before going back out, he kinda did this guide think to the table as i came out, i wanted to hit him with my bag and leave, but didn't instead I began to tell him that the text back i was getting from Ayu where really from a guy i know, which pissed him off, and then told him about the time my dad embarassed my "boyfriend", sorry jeff, till he started getting pissed off with me, then Ayu called to come and rescue me but i was able to get out of there moments later so i told her not to.
Heading out to my truck, he fallowed me, making comments about it again, and pointed comments like "for $1300 who where you fucking for this shit box", i just ingored him and got in and drove away after making a point off calling Ayu till he got in his jeep and drove away in the other direction.
Seriously I'm a good person what did i do to deserve this?
When i got inside who should happen to be there, K (this is what i will be refering to him as, i dont want to offend anyone from my area who happens to be friends with him), a guy who has been after me since highschool, and as he's told me on more then one occations He wants to fuck me, not date me, not have any sort of relationship, he just wants to fuck me, Why because i always tell him no, and before anyone sayd just do it he'll lose intrest, No, i have to much self repect to submit to that chauvinistic pig! Over the last 4 years since he left school he's somehow manged to get my number and texts me between 2-6 times a day always making borderline sexual comments and asking me if i want to get coffee or come hang out.
Well I gave him a nod to say hi, hoping he'd leave me alone as i went about ordering my tea, only to have to stand beside him to get it, he than found away to kinda cage me into the area, making the female serve feel uncomfurtable since we often joke around when i go in, but since he wasn't doing anything really besides standing there, she couldn't really say anything, he started talking to me, keeping me in that space, blocking half the serving counter, so i looked at him and said why dont we sit down, since they were people coming in and I knew the server was having a hard time trying to find the words to dislocate him from the counter, he lead me over to a table, before trying to offer my the corner seat so I'd have to go by him to move or leave, but i stole to open seat (something i hate doing since it leave my back open), so i could bolt if need be.
Talking to him felt just like olf times, all about him, what he liked, what he was doing, which was fine since i didn't want to be there, till he started making refences to his jeep, and offering me a ride home, I put my foot down with this, telling him i had my yukon there, and i didn't need a ride, this must of have hit him the wrong way because next he was telling me how i was wasting my money and it was a crap vehical that had to have something wrong, I started getting pissed and wanted to leave, but then he again changed the topic, telling me how he'd broken up with him girlfriend of 3 year, then to asking about a friend i'd perviously dated, to which i'd said that we were still friends, and that i'd had dinner with him not long before now, he asked if me and him still have a thing or if we are sleeping together on the side, and i was like, no, we are jsut friends and i dont date friends, or sleep with them since it just compliments things, he then said that 'there are some friends you can sleep with without complicating things,' I wanted to run, cry scream, but i just excused myself to the washroom, hoping to maybe sneek away, but the seat he's chose was great for him since i couldn't fake out going to the bathroom and run for the doors without him seeing.
When i got into the bathroom, i quickly texted
asking her to come save me, before going back out, he kinda did this guide think to the table as i came out, i wanted to hit him with my bag and leave, but didn't instead I began to tell him that the text back i was getting from Ayu where really from a guy i know, which pissed him off, and then told him about the time my dad embarassed my "boyfriend", sorry jeff, till he started getting pissed off with me, then Ayu called to come and rescue me but i was able to get out of there moments later so i told her not to.Heading out to my truck, he fallowed me, making comments about it again, and pointed comments like "for $1300 who where you fucking for this shit box", i just ingored him and got in and drove away after making a point off calling Ayu till he got in his jeep and drove away in the other direction.
Seriously I'm a good person what did i do to deserve this?
AgileFoxen
~agilefoxen
*hugs* what an creepy ass hole! "Being creepy is not working.... Lets try being an deliberate ass hole, girls like that right?" But hun you dont diserve to be treated like that D: to bad your didnt bring your brother, he could have flattened the guy :P
Sakra-Reed
~sakra-reed
OP
yeah well i'm free now, so i'm good, but i may need someone to act as my boyfriend in the near futur to get him to leave me alone if he tries again
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