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Difference is growth!
13 years ago
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Yes! I did it! For years I have argued against there being difference to people and that it splits them apart, and I was still right, but only when they're stubborn with each other with their opinions and this is what brings degeneration of relationships.
But for months now I've had a growing inner tension with people who say everyone is different, whilst I speak of everyone being the same. The truth lies in a balance of both!
People are common in two forms, all relationships are built on opposites.
But those opposites also allow growth and development with each other whilst having common ground for a flourishing relationship.
Take a person who is arrogant and someone who is modest. The modest person from the arrogant person learns to become more confident, whilst the arrogant person becomes more aware of his flaws. Thus, growth and development occurs.
This is essentiality, can bring the whole world to bond together, if we didn't actually accept mere difference and stubbornness in regard of it, but saw the common differences in each other necessary for growth!
But still, my point applies, I have been thinking for the past 8 months and many years that differences breeds disregard, but that is only when the two people absolutely refuse to compromise!
Thus in the end, my 'upfront, blunt and outspoken attitude' is actually necessary. It brings confidence to peoples feelings and allows them to bring regard of their own, but only when they compromise.
However, it is necessary I exercise deep caution in what I say. It is not that it will be then not the truth, but, do I really know what I'm talking about!
So it settles it there! The argument of everyone being different and the same are both right! The differences between us are growth and compromise is absolutely necessary for growth. Stubbornness can kill in some cases, but mostly, it is that each opinion of life should be met with balance; people should still always compromise somehow as each of us has something to learn.
It is not to say even the lonely people are bad. There is alot of good to be received in isolation, but the opposite is also good.
But I will still disagree in every way that people cutting off because they're different should cause the end of any friendship or relationship! Because both are right and have something to learn from each other!
But for months now I've had a growing inner tension with people who say everyone is different, whilst I speak of everyone being the same. The truth lies in a balance of both!
People are common in two forms, all relationships are built on opposites.
But those opposites also allow growth and development with each other whilst having common ground for a flourishing relationship.
Take a person who is arrogant and someone who is modest. The modest person from the arrogant person learns to become more confident, whilst the arrogant person becomes more aware of his flaws. Thus, growth and development occurs.
This is essentiality, can bring the whole world to bond together, if we didn't actually accept mere difference and stubbornness in regard of it, but saw the common differences in each other necessary for growth!
But still, my point applies, I have been thinking for the past 8 months and many years that differences breeds disregard, but that is only when the two people absolutely refuse to compromise!
Thus in the end, my 'upfront, blunt and outspoken attitude' is actually necessary. It brings confidence to peoples feelings and allows them to bring regard of their own, but only when they compromise.
However, it is necessary I exercise deep caution in what I say. It is not that it will be then not the truth, but, do I really know what I'm talking about!
So it settles it there! The argument of everyone being different and the same are both right! The differences between us are growth and compromise is absolutely necessary for growth. Stubbornness can kill in some cases, but mostly, it is that each opinion of life should be met with balance; people should still always compromise somehow as each of us has something to learn.
It is not to say even the lonely people are bad. There is alot of good to be received in isolation, but the opposite is also good.
But I will still disagree in every way that people cutting off because they're different should cause the end of any friendship or relationship! Because both are right and have something to learn from each other!
