Funeral Arrangements
13 years ago
“Your character is simply the sum of your thoughts over time.”
― Marcus Aurelius, The Meditations
― Marcus Aurelius, The Meditations
Hello my dear friends
first I would like to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for all your well wishes and support through this very very difficult time. It has helped us get through things and I thank each and everyone of you form the very bottom of my heart, the rest of my family passe on their gratitude as well.
we have come from the funeral directors office and my jaw is still on the floor the total amount that is going to cost to bury my mother is six thousand dollars and that is their cheapest package they have so to speak.
my mothers wish is to not be cremated but she also said do not spend so much money on me just to put me in the ground. I am still looking for other options and making arrangements keeping a cool head is very difficult but I must be strong for my self and the rest of my family, I will still be working on updates and putting up Wing Its but all the money goes to Funeral expenses. So like I said before patience with me right now is greatly appreciated, I am going to get back to updating here at the end of the month so everything will be getting back to some sens of normalcy soon.
we are not going to pay six thousand for a simple box show and burial. I have actually gone to some friends and they are going to see if they can figure something out for me I even have a friend of mine who is willing to put up the wood for the coffin (coffins START at 995.00) . with that kind of price I think I will build the coffin my self and bury her my self. true it sounds like an old west thing but at least she will be buried with dignity and compassion not buried by sales tax and false pretenses.
just letting everyone know what is going on, I am still in mourning but I iwll still be posting and updating as best as I am able
thank you for your kind concerns
you guys stay awesome.
first I would like to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for all your well wishes and support through this very very difficult time. It has helped us get through things and I thank each and everyone of you form the very bottom of my heart, the rest of my family passe on their gratitude as well.
we have come from the funeral directors office and my jaw is still on the floor the total amount that is going to cost to bury my mother is six thousand dollars and that is their cheapest package they have so to speak.
my mothers wish is to not be cremated but she also said do not spend so much money on me just to put me in the ground. I am still looking for other options and making arrangements keeping a cool head is very difficult but I must be strong for my self and the rest of my family, I will still be working on updates and putting up Wing Its but all the money goes to Funeral expenses. So like I said before patience with me right now is greatly appreciated, I am going to get back to updating here at the end of the month so everything will be getting back to some sens of normalcy soon.
we are not going to pay six thousand for a simple box show and burial. I have actually gone to some friends and they are going to see if they can figure something out for me I even have a friend of mine who is willing to put up the wood for the coffin (coffins START at 995.00) . with that kind of price I think I will build the coffin my self and bury her my self. true it sounds like an old west thing but at least she will be buried with dignity and compassion not buried by sales tax and false pretenses.
just letting everyone know what is going on, I am still in mourning but I iwll still be posting and updating as best as I am able
thank you for your kind concerns
you guys stay awesome.
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Sorry to hear this is all happening to you now of all times. I hope you manage to find a way through this hun *cuddles more*
if you need help, and there is any way that I can help you, please let me know Laffy... you and your family are in my heart and prayers everyday
Those Undertakers are jerks and will rip you off where they can.
But my heart goes to you. I know how loss is, You are with my thoughts. If you ever need to talk I'm here.
thank you for being there for me^^
I will recover I just have to treat it like an obstacle course and go with flow as best I can
My condolences to you and your family and friends, and my thoughts are with you all.