Two-In-One - Topic of the Month (TOTM) December/January.
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Alright considering that this group was created in late december we bring to
you two topics of the months of December and January for you all to
answer. You may debate among yourselves but keep drama at a complete
zero, we do not want to see fighting! Also if you would like to continue
these topics past the months of it feel free to! It's an open topic to discuss
and debate upon as civil and respectful adults!
December:
TOTM: Do you believe in Love at First Sight? (Why or Why Not?):
January:
TOTM: What do you look for in potential mates?
I prefer to take things slow and see where things go, compatibility is of uttermost importance for an relationship to work esp with me since i was raised to be loyal and I despise cheating. Just my two cents :)
Loyalty, adventurous, likes the outdoors, not afraid to fly, video games and a few others
Also must be flexible and open minded.
yes and no yes because when i fallin love in love at first sight it is really because i found them attractive but i wouldnt want to date them without knowing if they are a nice person or a totaly nasty person i like to get to know the person befor wanting to date them
What do you look for in potential mates?
i look for a nice person somone that would love a lot of things that i like and would accept me for who i am
Unrelated note, typing on a touch screen sucks. Lol
-A good sense of humor is a must for me, preferably on the lighter side as well. If he can't laugh and appreciate good humor, I won't consider him. Also, he would need to be sarcastic and get sarcasm, because I am very sarcastic. But he needs to know when to take things seriously, too.
-Being a gentleman. If a guy can be respectful, mature, sophisticated and cultured, I will fall for him almost immediately. Not to mention, I prefer guys who prefer classier clothing.
-Same values and political views. This is an absolute must for me, because I really enjoy talking about politics and philosophy and whatnot, and if we're going to be with each other for the rest of our lives, I'd like someone I could talk about that stuff with.
-Art or a hobby or something. I do look for someone who is passionate about something, because I find it really attractive, and it gives us something to talk about. Also, it shows he has goals in life, and I really look for a guy who is goal oriented.
-Someone who is a (casual) gamer, and maybe plays the odd FPS game, but can appreciate pretty much any other type of game as well.
-Someone who is cool, calm, stable, and patient. They are pretty concrete in what they believe, but they are willing to take in and respect other people's opinion. They loyal, honest, stay true to their word, and they're someone you can always depend on to be there for you.
-Someone who is affectionate, but conservative and reserved, doesn't give their affections out to just anyone.
Well, that's all I could come up with at the moment. XD
I do bealive at love at first sight, it happend to me 1ce in my entire life, lol. however love is not everything they must also be able to create life with me (to create like... not babys!! i repeat NOT BABYS!! lol, in this context i mean to create the life we live every day. be it working together to overcome an obsticl or working our seprate jobs to forward our goals. To create the bond every day :P )
What i want in a mate? *lays down on fridge and thinks*
well, I'm not too specific but they gotta be meture enough to know work is work and you need to work to get $$ to pay bills. They can not be LIERS,CHEATERS or BACKSTABBERS and can not be menipulative cus fuck that noise lol.
Lieing is prolly the worst thing you could do to me in a relationship, it hurts, its bad for both parties and i don't tolerate it any longer. I'm 26 and i live alone, i work foreverything i got so i would want someone who can at least drive and handle thiere life befor coming into mine. omg.. grown up talks.... NOOOOOOOOOOOO lol.
on that note i'd say you gotta be fun as well cant be a serouse guppy fish all the time!! *serouse guppy fish is serouse* -o- lol
Gotta love to game! and play Cards Against Humanity because fuck yes. also dont mind cussing and sexual innuendos cus... i do a lot of that lol.
Oh and you gotta like bigger women cus i am a squishy dyke! you don't like it? then nope lol
Compatebility also plays a big role for me. Likes and dislikes, lots of questions usualy is a huge help in getting to know another person so dont be afriad to ask!
One of my biggest things is COMMUNICATION. You gotta want to communicate, talk, text. Thiere is nothing worse then likeing somone and you only get 1 text from them a day saying "yeah." or "ok." drives me nuts! lol
all in all.
i except people for who they are, you are who you are never change yourself for anyone and stay true to that heart of yours :)
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Hi! I hope to meet someone nice and understanding. Willing to take time to take things slow and talk things out. If you want to know more just pm on here for more info ^^
January:
For me the most important thing is love and affection ... and ... in my particular case ... the other have to take care of me since I am a very careless subject with myself, even hurt, sick or injured I will continue working or doing what I owe ... it's nice to have someone who at least caresses your injured parts and stays with you giving affection while you overcome the pain x // 3
the support in the projects and desires of the other, the mutual complacency and the fun of the company of the other are very important things also ... im the kind of guy who is very amorous
though ... I cross the line with that haha
I like to receive an obsessive, possessive and jealous love, in closed or demi closed relationships and the corny and loving xP
the sexual is important and .... uhmmmm ... I think I ruined it by being honest but ... well ... but not as much as being compatible since if you do not like the person as he is, it will not work and less if you want to change to him or her xD
Hii, looking for friendship or even a relationship :D
- 20, Cis Female (?), Tomboyish and been on the furdom since i first got internet access but didnt interact with the fandom till a few years ago
- From Chile, latinoamerica, I'm a native Spanish speaker but understand English pretty well
- Demisexual, Monogamous and Hetero
I'm shy and anxious so I usually don't interact with people that often, no idea how to describe my personality but people say I'm fun to be around, charismatic, not so outgoing but not as introverted, loyal, caring and overall friendly, I can also be really impulsive, my eneagram is ENTP so yeah, I guess that says something
Stuff I like: having deep conversations about random topics, playing roblox, chatting all day, I also play some other games but take in consideration I have a old broken laptop xD, drawing, going to parks, playing volleyball, watching action movies, maybe other stuff but I can't remember now and drinking sum beer (social drinking), i love adventure time and some other shows, I mostly watch animated stuff tho
got any questions? just note me or answer here