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Worst Day Of My Life
13 years ago
Today started of great. Was hanging with friends and then my parents called me telling me that I really needed to come home immediately. Mom was freaking out so on go the lights and siren and now we start our hour drive...
I arrive home both my parents are on the couch with tears in their eyes as they tell me that my brother James was found dead this morning. His room.mate thought that he was sleeping yesterday. But this morning decided to check on him and he was found dead...
he's at Boston medical examiners office right now awaiting autopsy... that's all I know right now...
I miss you James... I really do. We were always together through the thick and thin and I miss you more than ever.... I love you James. Sleep well...
I arrive home both my parents are on the couch with tears in their eyes as they tell me that my brother James was found dead this morning. His room.mate thought that he was sleeping yesterday. But this morning decided to check on him and he was found dead...
he's at Boston medical examiners office right now awaiting autopsy... that's all I know right now...
I miss you James... I really do. We were always together through the thick and thin and I miss you more than ever.... I love you James. Sleep well...
massfurbowl
Just wish I had enough money to get to you and help you through this time, if only for a few days. Though I'd imagine I'd be quite unwelcome...
You are so very very lucky though, I know you have a truly wonderful mate who truly loves you to death and will do absolutely everything in his humanly power and more to make it better.
I also want you to know that I am here as well, and I will sure as hell listen and do my very very best to help you, even if all I can do is listen... If you EVER feel the need to vent ANYTHING at all, note me with your Skype... I promise you it is better than any kind of therapy anyone could buy with money. Again, I know your mate is there for you forever and always, but just know that my hand is extended as well. *hugs*
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family mate...may he rest in peace.
Although the sadness is overwhelming and difficult right now, all that will change with the passing of time. Your memories of him will become sweeter and the heart ache will fade.
The death of someone close to us leaves us shocked with grief. We cannot understand how one minute this person was here and the next they are gone. The truth is that those we love are never truly gone. The body may have run its course, but the soul lives forever.
Your Brother lives on in your heart and in your mind and he will always be there, listening to you and protecting you.
I truly believe that God gives us one task to perform in this life and we never know what that task is. We only know that the task has been completed, when he calls us home.
My prayers are with you and your family.
*hugs*
is something that I didn't though. I'm sorry and may he rest in peace.
having lost my own brother years back, i can relate heavily. but i hope that your family can get the closure on this gaping wound that my own never can.
do your best while coping from the loss, and if you ever need an ear or a person to chat with (reflecting or distracting), come give me a poke anytime. :) *firm hug* just do your best to take care of yourself before you can help your family with their own coping too. know what i mean?
pass along my condolances to the family and his roomy as well. you guys will all need the support.
I know it's just a coincidence, but I can't help feeling how unfair it is that this time of year is so prone to taking people out of our lives: my friend on a freeway; your brother in his sleep. It just seems...wrong.... :'(
I didn't know your brother...but I empathize with your grief. Take care. *hugs*