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Are the youths of today sincerely lost?
13 years ago
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I've been the focal point of many youths in my life, my boyfriend, little brother, cousin, sister, brother and well, so far can I say it has been I've seen over a hundred times like alot of us, these kids are suicidal, wasting their lives, apathetically lost and alone and traumatic, distrusting the world somehow, no hope in the future.
I've tried helping them, I've tried giving them confidence, vigor, a lifehood I never had really. Something I thought, 'If you did this, you'd feel amazing for the rest of your life', but it all seems so delirious really.
Are the youths really lost? My words have been lost on them every time to be discounted for. Not so much have I probably seemed hard on them, I simply, realistically gave them the inclusion that their lives are in turmoil and they're drowning to their deaths, or pursuing such a negative lifestyle it'll destroy them.
But youths these days seem unrelentlessly stubborn, fixed to these self destructive patterns, eating at them, most of them I wonder how they would've survived without me or some kinda helpline. I do not see it as simply growing up anymore, but growing up in the same way, the next generation does not look like it'll forebode much.
We're hopelessly apathetic to the world, we're losing hope, a smile is worn where there is no real smile and we're all in denial, eventually, the intolerance of sadness, no pity and love to another will be so strong that eventually kids like this without anything or anyone will just grow up stone cold and hardened, leaving a facet of lack of care for the younger generation and lack of sympathy.
If anything, many youths today are actually probably savng each other like hedgehogs, witnessing their friends, best friends and some like brothers, killing themselves over internet bullying, sadness and rage in life. Numerous kids I've seen are ready to kill themselves, I've said their lives many times, but it seemed only hopeless for them to do it again and again. For my boyfriend, this was a extremely self destructive pattern that lasted for a unrelentless amount of years.
How can the generation last? Is parenting really necessary? I can say I was older in that situation, and yes, my 'reality' will hit and stone the pitiful souls of teenagers, but without me, without you, without their friends, aren't many teenagers simply knowing nothing of love, hope of life, survival? Without us I simply feel, millions are dying everyday to feeling deeply unloved.
My exposure to my young boyfriend has made me wonder if it would be possible for me to even be a father to my own youth, as, with outstanding patience of myself and trying to lead and coax him, my previous girlfriend too, it's led me to think, can I lead that which must be led? Without me, aren't they just faltering and drowning to their deaths in extremely self destructive lifestyles? I see only one day I would have to have a child of 16, and still I wonder, how could I do it? Where did I go wrong? Without me, without my son or daughter, wouldn't they have died and left this world alot sooner?
I've had my little brother come up to me, it seems only so realistically these days you'd catch youths as small as 3 seemingly smoking the highly destructive pollutant cocaine drugs, marijuana and whatever else. 8 is a commonality, it's sad to see. I've grew up with druggies all around me constantly as we all have. Men looking desperately for a escapism with no hope at all of the future because their lives have led them with no support for so long, these drugs in some form become their adoptive mothers and fathers, their source, their structure, their security.
How can one lead these youths who stubbornly remain in pity, doubt of themselves? If yet, they're young we can say, we're blind to the lifestyles they're living, the lifestyles I tried to save and I'm sure with how many teenagers are enclosing themselves like hedgehogs, desperately trying to save and lose friends and adults and parents are only left, perhaps even illusioned to believe it's 'nothing' which starts off this whole chain reaction of self destructiveness.
I've tried helping them, I've tried giving them confidence, vigor, a lifehood I never had really. Something I thought, 'If you did this, you'd feel amazing for the rest of your life', but it all seems so delirious really.
Are the youths really lost? My words have been lost on them every time to be discounted for. Not so much have I probably seemed hard on them, I simply, realistically gave them the inclusion that their lives are in turmoil and they're drowning to their deaths, or pursuing such a negative lifestyle it'll destroy them.
But youths these days seem unrelentlessly stubborn, fixed to these self destructive patterns, eating at them, most of them I wonder how they would've survived without me or some kinda helpline. I do not see it as simply growing up anymore, but growing up in the same way, the next generation does not look like it'll forebode much.
We're hopelessly apathetic to the world, we're losing hope, a smile is worn where there is no real smile and we're all in denial, eventually, the intolerance of sadness, no pity and love to another will be so strong that eventually kids like this without anything or anyone will just grow up stone cold and hardened, leaving a facet of lack of care for the younger generation and lack of sympathy.
If anything, many youths today are actually probably savng each other like hedgehogs, witnessing their friends, best friends and some like brothers, killing themselves over internet bullying, sadness and rage in life. Numerous kids I've seen are ready to kill themselves, I've said their lives many times, but it seemed only hopeless for them to do it again and again. For my boyfriend, this was a extremely self destructive pattern that lasted for a unrelentless amount of years.
How can the generation last? Is parenting really necessary? I can say I was older in that situation, and yes, my 'reality' will hit and stone the pitiful souls of teenagers, but without me, without you, without their friends, aren't many teenagers simply knowing nothing of love, hope of life, survival? Without us I simply feel, millions are dying everyday to feeling deeply unloved.
My exposure to my young boyfriend has made me wonder if it would be possible for me to even be a father to my own youth, as, with outstanding patience of myself and trying to lead and coax him, my previous girlfriend too, it's led me to think, can I lead that which must be led? Without me, aren't they just faltering and drowning to their deaths in extremely self destructive lifestyles? I see only one day I would have to have a child of 16, and still I wonder, how could I do it? Where did I go wrong? Without me, without my son or daughter, wouldn't they have died and left this world alot sooner?
I've had my little brother come up to me, it seems only so realistically these days you'd catch youths as small as 3 seemingly smoking the highly destructive pollutant cocaine drugs, marijuana and whatever else. 8 is a commonality, it's sad to see. I've grew up with druggies all around me constantly as we all have. Men looking desperately for a escapism with no hope at all of the future because their lives have led them with no support for so long, these drugs in some form become their adoptive mothers and fathers, their source, their structure, their security.
How can one lead these youths who stubbornly remain in pity, doubt of themselves? If yet, they're young we can say, we're blind to the lifestyles they're living, the lifestyles I tried to save and I'm sure with how many teenagers are enclosing themselves like hedgehogs, desperately trying to save and lose friends and adults and parents are only left, perhaps even illusioned to believe it's 'nothing' which starts off this whole chain reaction of self destructiveness.
