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Gay and lez statement that bugs me
12 years ago
Hey all I got to get this all my chest and no this isn't a i hate gay's and lez or trolling thing...I just get a noid and hate this when ever I hear it and want to tell you all why and stop saying it. there is a lot of argument and lines people use. One is Love is Love. This make scene and I like it cuze i can get it and it is true. Know what doesn't work?
You rather let two unhappy straights merry then two happy gays merry?
God dam it...are you all that dum??
Ok lets break it down shall we.
1 Two unhappy straight couples get merry. ~ This statement means that the couples don't even like each other and there getting merry...why? is it an shock gun wedding or arrange marriage? did the bride get knock up and that is why there getting merry. If not this mean nothing. Marriage start off happy two people in deep love and want to share there life together, raise a kid. How ever sometime people merry too soon or people don't talk about them self too much or there likes so in do time there self’s are there down fall. sometimes there partner would go out and sleep around behind there husband or wife and would get caught, lost trust it soon become a loveless marriage. But it started as a Happy couple not unhappy.
2 then let happy gays get merry ~ Ok ok...you get merry you stay happy? you two going to be the most perfect couple in the whole wide world....*Shake magic 8 ball* Oh look at that is said all points to no. What I said before appildes to gays and lez. your going to have trouble along the way...sometime your partner thinks that this is what they want till one day it clinks in there mind no it is not. How i know...my sis who turn to lez after so many boys use her dated a nice girl. They where happy as can be till one day her mate took a family trip(her family not one with my sis) after she return the nice sweet girl change. she was mean and more angry with my sis...they finally broke up. my sis is now dating an other girl...I don't know anything about her yet.
an other sample is my Ant, she bash her whole family due to the fact of our religion. She was in a "happy" relationship for 9 years with this lady. the lady had a child. my aunt would go on and on how happy her relationship was and on and on...(i mean it...she got on my neavers) One day her lover told her that she was straight now and left her. 9 years of being happy just got fuck.
what my point....my point is....if you going to use a statements to try to win an argument....think carefully on what you are saying...cuz what you say might make you sound stupid.
thank you for lissening to me. please no trolling me, I will take your hate or like comments but please no troll. this been bothering me when ever I hear it.. and people here no I don't hate gays or lez...if you ever seen my artwork...I just find that man that line...use anything but that one.
You rather let two Unhappy straights merry then let two happy gays merry?
This line bugs my to death when people use it. this statment isn't true and make the person that said it look foolish. That is my point how things are worded.
People mean that two straight people can remain in a marriage, happy or not, without any legal issue. But it's not the same for gay folks.
And it's sad to see two gay people who are happy and in love and not allowed to get married, while some straight couple that HATES each other has the option.
Some people are cruel enough that YES, they would rather see a man and a woman who hate each other be married than allow two men to be in a happy marriage because being gay is just something they dislike.
That statement makes plenty of sense, and you're finding problems in it that were never implied.
"And it's sad to see two gay people who are happy and in love and not allowed to get married, while some straight couple that HATES each other has the option. "
Some straight couple that HATES each other has the option. My friend the only way I see this line to be true is if they don't get a choice in if they can or can't sample a shock gun wedding. but then it's not an option anymore cuz there force in the merrage now. but your telling me that there not happy and yet there getting merry? come on now...people start off happy till later on.. the statement make no scens when the line of what you said is not true cuz I can meet a girl tomarrow that we date for a few mounths, start hating eacher to death. Guess what happen next....we get merry...hell no we breack up. If we where in love got merry and after the merrage we started to hate each other...cuz she found me with many differnt girls...then where no longer in love and can become hate but this comes let again after merrage.
You're going off idealization, not real world observation. So yea, that statement still makes sense. You can try to spin it any way you want to, but it is and will be a valid statement as long as gay marriage is illegal in parts of the world.
to be honest I don't care if gays and straights can get merry. like I said before I love the line love is love cuz that make a good point. but how you word things like that marriage line...I do not agree cuz your saying that right now some unhappy man is merrying an lady who is unhappy with that man Im twisting nothing I just don't think people think about these things more carefully
maybe if the line was you rather let a straight couple merry and become unhappy wait no...that would not begood to word it that way.
maybe ......
You'd rather see a a straight couple marriage turn to shapples then to see a strong and happy marriage with two gay couples?
hmmm I think that work much better, don't you agree?
"your saying that right now some unhappy man is merrying an lady who is unhappy with that man "
Well...yes. Again, it happens all the time. People who dislike each other will marry sometimes for things like marriage benefits, and not for love at all. I see it around me. And its unfair to those who want to marry because they love each other.
You're telling me that people who hate each other don't get/stay married, well, all I can tell you is to pay more attention to the world around you. You can refuse to accept it all you like, but it will remain true.
I do belived people who get merry in due time get unhappy and stay merry.(My dad and mom are gppd samples of that)
to be honest...I never seen one unhappy coulpe get merry...I seen a control freack merry a girl that love him but he doesn't love her. I seen a guy who was in the closet merry a girl to cover the fact he was gay to his parrents. I seen a couple get merry after the man got injerr and grow grumpy and try to cancel the wedding but the lady whom was deeply inlove with him at the time try to keep there love strong merry him and that love faded. I seen all this but I never seen two people that truely hated each other get merry.